Relationship

Hi, just wanted to post this to see if I should feel the way that I do.
Basically it’s my birthday tomorrow so my mum said she will look after our child so we can go out tonight..
My partner had a football game today which is 3 and half hours away from home and he’s decided to go there instead of spending the evening doing things.
He’s not even playing as he’s hurt his foot, it’s not a high team it’s just his local team playing so he’s literally just there..
I feel hurt and upset that I’m sat in on my own for my birthday.
Should I feel like this or not?

What guy chooses to go watch football over his girlfriends birthday, I'd ditch him he ain't loyal

Hi, Sorry you're feeling like this.

Did he know that you were planning to go out? I know it sucks to be blown off for a sports game he's not even playing in. Fair enough, it's not like it's a big team... but is he the captain, or is it an important match?

I appreciate this is a bit late now, but hopefully you can do something with your girl-mates? I dunno, go to a bar, go out for a meal or watch a movie?

Honestly. But they have a baby so she probably can’t just leave him just like that . I think she should have an honest convo with him about how she feels and if he doesn’t change ,she should contemplate other options

Thanku for your reply , really greatful!
Yeah, he knew that I wanted to do something and obvs with my mum saying she would had our child for us to do something aswell just shows really that I wanted to plan something.
He’s not captain or anything, he’s actually just a sub so he literally will only play like the last 20 minutes of a normal game anyway.
It was a bigger game but I still feel annoyed at the fact we didn’t do anything and he didn’t even actually play.
I actually don’t have any friends as I moved down south so I only have my partner, child and family so I couldn’t have even done that. ☹️