Would you be put off if a guy hadn't been in a relationship before you?

Asking the more mature students here like 20+, not teens obvs, that'd be common among them.

If a guy you liked told you he hadn't been in a relationship before, would you be put off?

P.S. Not a virgin, just not really been into a real relationship before u.

Reply 1

Surnia

Why would it? No-one has been in a relationship until they've been in a relationship...

Actually, there's no simple simple or no answer.

(edited 6 months ago)

Reply 2

StriderHort

Kind of - relationships are in a lot of ways a learned skill. it's just like applying for a job, everyone has to start somewhere but you'll find a lot of employers reluctant to take that chance on someone with no track record.

One thing the younger posters here are good for is showcasing the sheer amount of stupid attitudes and preconception some people have to relationships.

Reply 3

londonmyst

Yes.

I only date guys at least 15 years older than me and guys of that age never having a relationship is never a positive thing.
Usually means that they are either: not interested in commitment, are workaholics, have serious health problems/are focused on providing care for someone who does, are problem daters, retain criminal associations or have close ties to relatives/groups with lousy reputations.

Reply 4

nonchalant-

Original post by Anonymous

Alot of people haven't been in a serious relationship in their 20s, its not unusual to not find the one to settle down with at this age . So yeah it's fine.