No one knows how the first time. And yes, the prospect of kissing someone when you don't know how to do it is scary. The first time I kissed a girl it was extremely awkward. Neither of us had kissed anyone before, and honestly, it was awful. But it's something we look back on and laugh about now, and in fact did so fairly soon after it happened (we broke up soon afterwards but stayed friends). The fact is, as with anything like this, the only way to get better at it really is to practise. In many ways you're in an ideal situation because neither of you knows how to do it, and the way forward is just to give it a go. You're never going to figure out how to do it if you don't try it. So don't take it too seriously, acknowledge that it's going to take you both some time to get it right, and have fun with it.