Ok this is quite hard for me to ask.
I've been thinking about asking for a long time basically something thats been going on in my house.
I've had some physical ...problems with mainly one of my parents.
He's lost his temper since I was maybe 10 years old and I've ended up having heavy things thrown at me, being punched, strangled , thrown on the floor etc.
Is this something that goes on quite often with most teens as I see my family as being fairly normal aside from this?
Im just quite confused. I was prompted to ask this question because tonight it happened again (it only happens maybe once every 3 months). I put something in the dishwasher and he deemed it as being in the wrong place (dont understand how it was in the wrong place).
I just countered him shouting at me by saying "just because it isnt where you put it doesnt mean its wrong".
He shouted and threw a big glass pot at me quite hard from not to far away.
Am I being silly about this? I don't know if its just what families do. In the past we've been in arguments and he's been chasing me about the room trying to hurt me.
Both my parents have said its my fault because I get him angry enough to do it so I've always accepted that but I'd just like to know others think.
In the past I've had a few bruises on my face, been strangled (not badly - twice), had quite a few things thrown at me, been pushed and thrown onto the floor and just generally had him being aggressive and quite scary.
Please no stupid remarks. Its taken enough courage to write this.