Okay then, if you put it like that. The marriage was fine then. Your mum believed him when he said he was a muslim. Kind of sick of your dad to do that to be honest. What kind of man lies t the woman he loves and comprimise the religion she believes in? That's just horrible
aha lying was a big problem in their relationship causing divorce.
There isn't a split. I honestly don't know where you have been researching, but even your average muslim would know this. I can if you want, provide the quotes from the Quran?
The fact is, there is no debate or discussion on the issue. I mean look at this article to show you the proof....
http://www.oxfordtimes.co.uk/news/4423688.Imam_bridges_a_wedding_divide/Only one imam is doing it out of the thousands that are in Europe. Marrying a non muslim is a sin if you are a woman. Only a muslim man can marry a non muslim, but not just any non muslims, but only the people of the books. They are Jews and Christans. Anybody else is a massive no. Furthermore, they have to be practising Jews and Christians and must be virgins. (if they are practising, they wouldn't have sex before marriage) and then finally, there must be an agreement that the child will be raised as a muslim.
Do you want me to provide you the evidence? I mean, it really isn't that hard. Just google it
Not wearing a headscarf does not mean you are not a muslim
So wait, you won't choose your partner based on religion?
You have to if you believe in the religion. Because if you want to be with your partner and he doesn't meet the requirements set in Islam, your marriage is illegitimate accoring to Islam.
Basic? No, your a muslim.
Hang on, are you serious? Breast/lip/nose surgery is nowhere near having braces put? Good lord. How many 13 year olds do you know who have undergone plastic surgery? The religion states you should not change your body for certain reasons. Having a breast surgery is shallow and not allowed. Lip and nose surgery is different and might be allowed. but for example if you have lip surgery to make your lip more "sexy" and pouty, then no. If it's because it looks weird and a bit odd, then fine.
Islam expects women and men to be modest. I agree with the last point. However if you wear tight jeans, don't expect a bloke to check you out. You're wearing it for a reason. To make you look good
Hopefully you'll find the time and money to go to Mecca. Millions of muslims have never been and never will go due to financial or health reasons. Just becuse you haven't been to mecca, doesn't mean you're a bad muslim. Just as long as you plan to go in the future