about marriage

is it better to have arrange or love marriage ? but i prefer arrange marriage

Love marriage. Why marry someone that you don’t know and may not have compatibility with?

Given the number of “ love” mariages that break down, why shouldn’t an arranged mariage work ?As long as the husband/ wife was carefully chosen and there is mutual respect and each person is a willing participant I have nothing against it. A family forcing a young girl into marrying someone against her wishes is something else however.

Love marriage. Why marry someone that you don’t know and may not have compatibility with?

idk ask my brown parents

Love marriage. Why marry someone that you don’t know and may not have compatibility with?

its better arrange marriage coz it lasts than love marriage coz love marriage u know each other while arrange u dont know each other so ur curious to know about him or her thinggs go slowly slowly

I respect your opinion but I disagree arrange marriage to be honest makes it awkward because you don’t even know the person, and again there maybe no comparability and understanding as for love marriage you may know each other for a little period of time the bond and understanding develops and provided that both of you see something in one and other that’s more special and lasting.

Not necessarily it takes two people that are right for one and other and if the understanding and compatibility there there’s no reason to why it cannot work you just can’t go upon statical or factual points about love marriage. Not in the context of bringing force marriage in love marriage when two people genuinely love each other there’s no reason to why it cannot work

I didn’t say that a love mariage can’t work, I was just pointing out that if each person is honest going into the relationship,arranged marriages can work, as long as arranged doesn’t mean forced!

I didn’t say that a love mariage can’t work, I was just pointing out that if each person is honest going into the relationship,arranged marriages can work, as long as arranged doesn’t mean forced!

ok thats great i think maybe it depends on someones like

Yeah exactly!

ok another qn for u guyz is it good to marry someone who is different from ur culture like turkish guy and tanzanian indian girl or i think its difficult to get different people

ok another qn for u guyz is it good to marry someone who is different from ur culture like turkish guy and tanzanian indian girl or i think its difficult to get different people

coz most of them they get married their own culture but i prefer different culture coz u ae going to learn many different things or?

It depends on you but then again this is where culture clash may occur especially in Asian society in the point in which how likely are the in laws and both set of parents are likely to accept the marriage. I personally would go for someone of my culture like I’m awaiting patiently my turn to marry a girl of my culture although there’s been some ongoing issues to resolve.

Lmao I’m in a situation myself can I guess you of Asian heritage.

ooh ok then inshaallah(gods willing) everything will be ok just pray