Ok so I just want to moan about my friend.
She's my best friend. I've known her forever, and she's been my best friend for about nine years. She just pisses me off so much!
Maybe I just get irritated easily. But it's like she always has to be the centre of attention. I know the simple answer would be to stop being friends with her. I do like her, that is why I am such good mates with her. It's just some of the things she does...
I am having a new years party. Right MY party. Therfore if anyone, I should be centre of attention (not that I want to be. I am not a spoilt brat). My friend asks me what I am wearing and I tell her I'm wearing a nice dress but I'm not dressing up too much. She says she is wearing a hawaiian grass skirt and a bikini.
Right. Ok then. Whatever she wants.
Whenever she comes to my house (I live with uni friends) she doesn't make any effort with them. She'll sort of pull me aside and just spend the night talking to me, and then will get super drunk and make a fool of herself. (They now know her as the mad, drunken, crazy one) She doesn't even try and make conversation with them. Maybe she's shy (although she's met them quite a few times), and I know she's there to see me and not them, but it really annoys me that she doesn't even make an effort with my other friends - but then maybe I'm just trying to find fault with her.
I went out the other week and while she was talking to her friend I met this guy. We got on well, exchanged numbers and chatted a lot. The other day she said to me: you know that guy you were getting close with. He really fancied me.
Any guys that I meet, she will try and barge in on us. If she has met them then she will tell me he added her on facebook, and then will continue to tell me that he keeps talking to her and she doesn't know why. This has happened a few times. Well I don't know, maybe he does fancy her and isn't interested in me, or maybe, just maybe he is trying to be friendly!
If for example there's a guy that I know and like but I'm like 'eee I'm too afraid to talk to him.' then eventually I pluck up the courage to go and talk to him, she will then come over and say 'she's just been standing over there for half an hour too scared to talk to you. she really likes you etcccc'
She acts really desparate in clubs. To be honest I am not at all interested in pulling guys in clubs. Maybe I did that sort of thing when I was 17 - and I wasn't even that bad. But I am now nearly 21 and cannot be bothered with it. However if a guy trys to dance with me or whatever, before I have even had to chance to move away, she will dance really close to him and start talking to him. She knows that I can't be bothered with the whole meeting a guy in a club thing, and she knows that I won't abandon her on a night out, but she will still do it.
She has been known to go into the toilet of a club with a guy and have sex with him. One night when we were on the train home she met a randomer and brought him home to have sex with him. On her birthday she acted really desparate all night and once we were outside the club at 3AM she finally met a guy and went back to his flat. One night out we both got with these guys who knew each other, she then went back to one of their flats (I also went because I didn't want to go home on my own - although I sat there and pretended to sleep) and had sex with one, and then the other within half an hour of the first one. Ahh I don't know, I have so many stories like that.
I was telling my friend and he was like what happened to her?? As I told him, she used to be completely different. When our other friend used to go back home with a guy after a night out she used to say how disgusting it was. Now she's just as bad. My mate said he couldn't believe some of the stories I told him, and he said I needed to have a word with her. But what would I say?!?
Also, she is asking if I want to go out with her tomorrow night. I haven't seen her in a while so it would be nice. Like, we went to the pub - a group of us the other night so we can't do that again, but it would be good to have a night out and I don't think anyone else can go but me and her. However there is a high chance she will meet some random guy and will leave me to dance in the club on my own and to walk to the train station (in a really dodgy area) and go home on my own, and I will end up shouting at her, and we will have a massive falling out and I will get pissed off again. Or I will leave it and rage in silence.
Ahhhhhh well that was a mega long essay.