Virginity

If someone actually had a problem with your body then in my opinion they aren't worth sleeping with!

You probably see yourself totally different to other people see you, he might look at you and think your beautiful, you just need to see it yourself :smile:

Reply 21

Anonymous #3

Original post by GdotL

I feel like hugging you! I'm pretty bad too. xxx

Aww, thanks! How do you cope with it?? xxx

Reply 22

GdotL

17

Original post by Anonymous

Yes. I am extremely hairy. Probably more hairy than most guys. I have hair on my breasts, stomach, lower back and bum. It's a lot of hair and some of it is quite long and thick. Looking at it makes me feel sick I don't think I could ever get naked in front of anyone.

It says that anonymous quoted me but there's nothing here! Did you delete the post? :frown:

Reply 23

WJ99

If I like someone, I like them with their clothes on or off. Most decent men would still think you're attractive.

Reply 24

rachelkeira

14

I used to be like you, I hate my stomach... but then I just thought, screw it, I'm only going to live once. Chances are the guy won't even notice or care, and very unlikely he'd comment! I've never had any complaints, doubt you would either, just be brave!

Reply 25

anonymousey

4

Original post by littlemissm

and guys like confidence!! I'm sure most guys would prefer a confident girl with a less than perfect figure to one who has a perfect body but hates her appearance

what a load of crap, what makes u think that? I hate overly confident, loud and bossy girls.

Reply 26

WJ99

Original post by anonymousey

what a load of crap, what makes u think that? I hate overly confident, loud and bossy girls.

^^^^ This.

A happy medium is nice.

Reply 27

littlemissm

1

Original post by anonymousey

what a load of crap, what makes u think that? I hate overly confident, loud and bossy girls.

I didn't say over-confident, just confident

Reply 28

Anonymous #1

OP

I think it may be partially down to being so intimate with someone, it never seems so daunting after a drink or two.

I've also been looking into corsets from Ann Summers etc. To hide it. Is this a good idea, as although not naked, still comes across as being sexy? Or is this something that you would advise against.

I know it's cliche, suspenders and a corset, but if it helps, then surely, the guy would be appreciative of it?

Reply 29

IlexBlue

2

Original post by spocckka

Very classy.

Can't rep anymore people today. :frown:

Damn!

Reply 30

*Dreaming*

15

I sed to think just like you- I hated my tummy, it wasn't toned enough. I hated my thighs, I hated the stretch parks on my hips, the love handles....the list goes on.

But what you have to realise, is that if a guy see's you naked, his mind (if there's any blood left there) is going to be thinking NAKED GIRL and SEX not "oh my god how gross look at her tummy."

Remember, you are your harshest critic.

Reply 31

Charlottelisabeth

8

Well for me it's not really the process of losing one's virginity in the 1st place that is important to me, well, it is, but rather sex in general is a very important thing to me.

I'm a virgin myself, I'm the type that won't have sex with anyone who I don't trust & care about a lot & vice versa. I'd have to really really care about someone to have sex with them & I'd have to be 100% sure that the guy felt the same way about me as well.

Btw no I haven't been in a situation where I turned down sex before because of any insecurities to do with my weight, well I've never actually been offered sex lol, I only turned 18 last month & I'll be going to Uni in Sept & haven't seen enough of the world yet! I myself do have a bit of a tummy & my thighs & bum are quite big, but because these parts of my body are obvious to see whilst I'm clothed I'm sure any person I date in the future will know that I don't have the perfect body so I won't come as a shock to them the way I look when they see me naked!

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 32

spocckka

14

Original post by IlexBlue

Can't rep anymore people today. :frown:

Damn!

Aww, was it going to be positive or negative?

Reply 33

IlexBlue

2

Original post by spocckka

Aww, was it going to be positive or negative?

Positive!

Oh, maybe I can now...

Reply 34

WJ99

Original post by Charlottelisabeth

Well for me it's not really the process of losing one's virginity in the 1st place that is important to me, well, it is, but rather sex in general is a very important thing to me.

I'm a virgin myself, I'm the type that won't have sex with anyone who I don't trust & care about a lot & vice versa. I'd have to really really care about someone to have sex with them & I'd have to be 100% sure that the guy felt the same way about me as well.

Btw no I haven't been in a situation where I turned down sex before because of any insecurities to do with my weight, well I've never actually been offered sex lol, I only turned 18 last month & I'll be going to Uni in Sept & haven't seen enough of the world yet! I myself do have a bit of a tummy & my thighs & bum are quite big, but because these parts of my body are obvious to see whilst I'm clothed I'm sure any person I date in the future will know that I don't have the perfect body so I won't come as a shock to them the way I look when they see me naked!

want some sex?

Reply 35

ForKicks

12

Original post by spocckka

Very classy.

haha, second this! :tongue:

Reply 36

Charlottelisabeth

8

Original post by WJ99

want some sex?

When I meant offered I meant in person lol! Thanks for asking though :wink:

, I'll take it to heart!!

Reply 37

Anonymous #5

Yeah. I don't want to have sex until I feel ok about my body.

Reply 38

Anonymous #6

Turn the lights off?

Seriously though, if you're not ready you're not ready. I wouldn't have dreamt of taking my clothes off in front of anyone, but when you meet someone who makes you feel like a million dolllars (cheese sorry) you won't care :love:

Reply 39

Anonymous #1

OP

I guess, and I do try to be more confident, I just don't manage it around guys. And ok, alcohol does help. But that wouldn't be a good thing, being drunk everytime I slept with someone. I do just hope that it does feel normal to be ok with my body when I actually meet the right person :smile:

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