A Basic Men's Guide to Success with Women

"Always leave them wanting more" is my motto.

Rejection: Everybody needs to be comfortable with rejection. No man can ever have success with women or get the type of woman he wants and knows he deserves, unless he is comfortable approaching and initiating contact with women regularly, and can deal with rejection. Sometimes you may have done something wrong (and can learn from it), sometimes she may be taken, sometimes you're just not right for each other. Not everybody can be into everybody. It can't be taken personally, just as any woman can't be miffed for weeks if a guy never calls her back.

Oh God. You won't have much fun with women looking like a dork. If you need your t-shirts to be humorous FOR you, you have a problem.

This is the most important thing that stops men being successful with women. Fear of rejection. Once you get over this you've crossed a huge milestone. The thing is not to get disheartened once it happens. At a club sometimes I'll get rejected once or twice but not let it get me down and end up leaving with a girl. Once you get into that mindset, no matter how bad you are with women you've won half the battle.

Very true. I think it's easy to underestimate it. It's weird, because I could sit there before a night out, and think "if I see a girl I like, I'll just talk to her, easy", and really believe it, but then when I was actually in the situation, and it's a real girl, suddenly it can become the hardest thing in the world.

It's just lack of experience with talking to and dealing with women as social equals. That's why it gets easier as you get older.

I'd like to ask, what constitutes 'long' hair? Because at the moment my hair is like this:

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And I get people of both genders saying they think it's cool, and it goes with my over all style.

Testimonial - Hooj, 23, Warwickshire

Hello, i followed this guide after months of debating whether or not it was really worth it. In the end i caved in and thought, "...why not?".

DID NOT WORK!

You know racism plays a part when trying to pull right? sub-consciously many women reject based on skin colour (asian springs to mind)... maybe that is why it did not work out?

But herein lies the problem. Some more awkward young men find it hard to speak to women effectively for whatever reason. This is just the nature of the fact that teenagers are awkward. But instead of just persevering and continuing to treat women as real people and getting used to talking to them normally and confidently, the current methodology being promoted is to withdraw from this process altogether and start treating women as objects in a game that they need to learn tricks to fool. Going out to "pick up" or "chat up" women is distinctly NOT treating them as social equals, its the very essence of female sexual objectification.

Instead of getting better as they get more experienced, they actually get worse.

I personally think that is better, than social equals you speak off. Most girls would just friendzoned guys who do that. In the past it might have worked, but today it doesn't as you just get friendzoned.

PUA approach at least has you being forward with girls and chatting them up. Treating girls like friends is the worst thing you can do.

Although, I think the biggest problem is just looks. Improving your looks is best way to get girls. But, that means 1 hour of exercise a day and perfect nutrition.

I personally think that is better, than social equals you speak off. Most girls would just friendzoned guys who do that. In the past it might have worked, but today it doesn't as you just get friendzoned.

PUA approach at least has you being forward with girls and chatting them up. Treating girls like friends is the worst thing you can do.

Although, I think the biggest problem is just looks. Improving your looks is best way to get girls. But, that means 1 hour of exercise a day and perfect nutrition.

That is such *******s. Treating girls with respect as your social equals does not mean you get friendzoned. Being ugly and boring makes you get friendzoned. Try being some PUA nonce and they won't even want to be friends with you, they'll soon realise you're far too creepy and manipulative for them to want to be associated with you at all.

TBH mate, don't think you know much about the PUA scene.

It's not about being "manipulative", it's simply about knowing what to do to build attraction. Lots of "PUA nonce" focuses on the fact of treating those situations as ordinary, every day ones and having fun with the interaction

It's just lack of experience with talking to and dealing with women as social equals. That's why it gets easier as you get older.

I don't fully agree about the "social equals" thing though, a big part of it is not treating the women like she's better than you