I am female, in my twenties and polyamorous.
Please feel free to ask me anything within reason, while following the forum rules.
I realise this may elicit a lot of 'troll' responses, however I welcome genuine questions. This is not a lifestyle choice, it is part of who I am and being in a minority, especially one that is so taboo in Western culture is not always easy. Polyamory is seen in the modern world in other cultures, and quite frequently in World history.
I'll add in a short definition (how I define these terms) to get started.
Monogamy is being with one person, or one person at a time until you have settled down, for the rest of your life and remaining faithful to that person.
Polyamory literally means 'multiple love'. It is not casual sex, it is not promiscuity. It is not swinging and for most people, is not even about sex. It is not cheating. It is not being married to more than one person (that is called polygamy [one husband multiple wives] or polyandry[one wife, multiple husbands])
It is about dating, and forming relationships with more than one person at a time while making sure that everyone involved is aware of the situation and happy. Without solid communication, openness, and honesty it just can't work.
Why am I opening myself up to questions? Well, why not. I am happy with my life and the only thing I regret is how taboo polyamory is when multiple divorces are seen as more acceptable in today's society. I always welcome the chance to learn new things about new people, so maybe someone will find this interesting. Maybe someone might find this enlightening and maybe, one person out there is thinking 'I feel this way too, thanks for making me realise it's ok'.