Anal with a friend.

Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?

Reply 1

Kasa

20

Original post by Anonymous

Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?

Please don't tell me this is a troll post..

Just be blunt. If he doesn't understand and it destroys your friendship, he is not a good friend. End off.

Reply 2

Holby_fanatic

16

Just say you don't want to compromise your friendship.

Reply 3

consumed by stuff

9

Tell him to go **** himself.

yolo

Original post by Anonymous

Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?

Wait I'm confused is this one friend or a group of friends?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by TSA

Wait I'm confused is this one friend or a group of friends?

One friend. Sorry, I tend to use non-gender specific pronouns without meaning to, which can be confusing :colondollar:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by hellodave5

Troll-ololol

I'm not a troll.
Trolls are ruining this site. Now I can't even post a thread with a genuine problem without being accused of being a troll. It's incredibly frustrating.

Reply 8

Merveilles

Original post by Anonymous

Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?

One simple little word

NO

then walk away.

That should do it - friends do not ask friends to do such things.

Reply 9

48:13

Friendzone him, do it firm and be hard about it, but friendzone him.

Reply 10

alexbiology

just politely explain that you don't want to do him up the but

Reply 11

Phoebe Buffay

19

Just say no, but also you could suggest to him to try buttplugs

Reply 12

thegodofgod

19

Original post by consumed by stuff

Tell him to go **** himself.

Well-played lol!

Reply 13

Bonmot

8

Talk about friend in need....shove their opinion of fun up their arose..literally

Reply 14

rileystringer

You only have one life, just try it

Reply 15

Kvothe the Arcane

20

Just express that you're not comfortable with the idea.
If he is a good friend, he shouldn't pressure you.

Reply 16

rileystringer

Original post by Anonymous

I'm not a troll.
Trolls are ruining this site. Now I can't even post a thread with a genuine problem without being accused of being a troll. It's incredibly frustrating.