I had a baby at 20 AMA!

What planet do you live on? 30/40 is when most people nowadays are choosing to have children. The days of having children in your early 20s are pretty much over (other than in the 3rd world, and in the case of the OP). Why would you want to waste the young years of your life raising children? Also, people in their early 20s tend to be less established and financially unstable, and the child will most probably have a ****ty upbringing.

Were you using contraception at the time of the conception? And if so, what sort?

Yes the pill I had a sickness bug while I was in china and she was conceived around that time. I have the implant now so no more kids for at least 4 years.

Yes have been for almost 4 years
Just bought our first home, yes & our families are very happy. I'm starting my nurse training in september.

Yes actual contracting was fine, it's like a seat belt tightening over your belly and it gradually gets more & more intense. I had whats deemed a good labour I had no pain relief the worst part was when her head crowned but it was fine.

I swear women overhype child birth tbh. if it was a man in labour he would probs sit there quietly reading a magazine. my gf screamed the place down I was getting so pissed off... little drama queen.

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Yep, it doesn't hurt at all. Women just like making a fuss for no reason

I swear women overhype child birth tbh. if it was a man in labour he would probs sit there quietly reading a magazine. my gf screamed the place down I was getting so pissed off... little drama queen.

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I swear women overhype child birth tbh. if it was a man in labour he would probs sit there quietly reading a magazine. my gf screamed the place down I was getting so pissed off... little drama queen.

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Are you serious? Your name says Ana which means you're a girl which means you must have not had a child before and are just talking ****. Or you're a guy and same thing

You're going to get a lot from the doom-and-gloom "you were too young to have a child" brigade on TSR to be honest. Just ignore the negativity - that's what I always do .

You're going to get a lot from the doom-and-gloom "you were too young to have a child" brigade on TSR to be honest. Just ignore the negativity - that's what I always do

Yeah I realise that was a statement rather than a question haha.

Okay a question. How old is your daughter now (sorry I realise that was already asked but I don't see an answer), and what did you do to celebrate her birthdays?

I'm running out of birthday ideas for my lil' monkeys haha.

I swear women overhype child birth tbh. if it was a man in labour he would probs sit there quietly reading a magazine. my gf screamed the place down I was getting so pissed off... little drama queen.

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Would you ever consider posting g a picture of your baby on TSR?

My parents had a child at age 20, and have been married for 33 years- doubtless longer in nominal, and in terms of percentage of one's life than the parents of the righteous trolls on here. Don't listen to the people who say you're too young. I know, on the other hand plenty of late 20's, early 30's who have had kids and separated from their biological fathers almost immediately. Age is not a qualification for parental preparedness.