Height and skin colour

Original post by loveleest

Hence why I said MOST. I never said all. (90+) won't accept it; I am not going to go out of my way to look for an Asian guy that parents will accept me.

False. You just said "I wouldn't ever date them".

I am physically attracted to them but in terms of their family accepting me is rare. If I would one that did, and I liked him, then yes of course; but like I said it is rare.

This is totally defensible, but contradicts the aforementioned remark.

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Original post by mrsjenner

@Mahmoud X

I guess loveleest is a troll, too, you know...pointing out Arab and Asian separatism/racism and all..." :rolleyes:

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I never said that they were racist; ffs. My Asian friends told me this themselves.
Stop trying to make a big deal out of nothing.

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Original post by Shillary

False. You just said "I wouldn't ever date them".

This is totally defensible, but contradicts the aforementioned remark.

But It's very rare that I would ever date one which is why I made a blunt statement saying I won't ever date them.

If the chance I would date one is less than 5%, why would I get my hopes up, lie and say I would date one even though I know I won't?

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Mahmoud X

Original post by mrsjenner

@Mahmoud X

I guess loveleest is a troll, too, you know...pointing out Arab and Asian separatism/racism and all..." :rolleyes:

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She said as an individual she doesn't think she could be with a South Asian or Arabic man, you said that no South Asian or Arabic man could ever be with her. She is able to speak for herself as an individual, you are not able to speak for millions of people. I really don't see have you could possibly be this brain damaged unless your mother was an alcoholic when she was pregnant with you.

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Original post by Mahmoud X

She said as an individual she doesn't think she could be with a South Asian or Arabic man, you said that no South Asian or Arabic man could ever be with her. She is able to speak for herself as an individual, you are not able to speak for millions of people. I really don't see have you could possibly be this brain damaged unless your mother was an alcoholic when she was pregnant with you.

Thank you!
Finally someone understands what I am saying.

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Original post by loveleest

I never said that they were racist; ffs. My Asian friends told me this themselves.
Stop trying to make a big deal out of nothing.

Don't change your mind now. There's nothing to be scared of. There is racism in Arab and Asian communities, it's ok to admit it you :lolwut:

But I'm not trying to make a big deal. I tagged someone who is ridiculing me for pointing out the separatism/racism. Nice that you skip over that word "separatism." Which...isn't racism. It's when you treat others just fine, but still want to keep them away from marrying your kids :s-smilie:

It happens, you're saying it yourself this whole time lol which is why I quoted you.

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Original post by Mahmoud X

She said as an individual she doesn't think she could be with a South Asian or Arabic man, you said that no South Asian or Arabic man could ever be with her. She is able to speak for herself as an individual, you are not able to speak for millions of people. I really don't see have you could possibly be this brain damaged unless your mother was an alcoholic when she was pregnant with you.

Original post by loveleest

Thank you!
Finally someone understands what I am saying.

What are you thanking him for? lol
When did I say they would never see themselves with her? I was merely agreeing with loveleest, who clearly said...that majority wouldn't accept her...

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Original post by mrsjenner

What are you thanking him for? lol
When did I say they would never see themselves with her? I was merely agreeing with loveleest, who clearly said...that majority wouldn't accept her...

I thanked him because he is not being an idiot and actually understanding what I said instead of trying to over complicate things and make a big deal out of it.

Yes... You said that because I said I don't see myself being with an Asian or Arabic guy.

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Original post by mrsjenner

Don't change your mind now. There's nothing to be scared of. There is racism in Arab and Asian communities, it's ok to admit it you :lolwut:

But I'm not trying to make a big deal. I tagged someone who is ridiculing me for pointing out the separatism/racism. Nice that you skip over that word "separatism." Which...isn't racism. It's when you treat others just fine, but still want to keep them away from marrying your kids :s-smilie:

It happens, you're saying it yourself this whole time lol which is why I quoted you.

Oh... so you agreed with me the whole time? :s

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Mahmoud X

Original post by loveleest

I thanked him because he is not being an idiot and actually understanding what I said instead of trying to over complicate things and make a big deal out of it.

Yes... You said that because I said I don't see myself being with an Asian or Arabic guy.

I see this all the time with TSR arguments, people take things too literally rather than trying to understand the 'spirit' of what people are saying.

Reply 31

sleepysnooze

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Original post by loveleest

Most are not accepting; my Asian friends- In particular my South Asian friend told me this themselves so get a ****ing grip and stop trying to be problematic.

What I am saying it true.

well I'm hoping you're at least willing to concede that there are *some* arabs that are liberal and don't have a culture/upbringing that mirrors the upbringing people get in the middle east, right? I mean, in my opinion, most black people have very conservative and fundi upbringings but that doesn't mean I judge them based on that fact - if I met a black girl who I was attracted to, I wouldn't care, unless that stereotype became true for them in particular

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Original post by loveleest

Oh... so you agreed with me the whole time? :s

Yes. Pay no mind to Mahmoud; he's trolling me from another thread where he insulted me for disagreeing with him, and now he's trying to deliberately instigate you against me :rofl:

so pathetic. But yes I simply agree with you, that there is separatism which is why I said what I said. I didn't say it to be rude even if it was. I said it because trust they have racist ideals, obviously. I am Indian with a lot of Arab mates and trust me, they might casually try to fling if that or just socialise with you if that but it's a rare gem to like be committed, in public, possibly even start a family. Unless you're their religion. And still not even for that either lol it's a big shame. I've even had to date Indian girls I don't like as much as a black girl or mixed race...

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Original post by sleepysnooze

well I'm hoping you're at least willing to concede that there are *some* arabs that are liberal and don't have a culture/upbringing that mirrors the upbringing people get in the middle east, right? I mean, in my opinion, most black people have very conservative and fundi upbringings but that doesn't mean I judge them based on that fact - if I met a black girl who I was attracted to, I wouldn't care, unless that stereotype became true for them in particular

Idk why you're implying that loveleest has the issue here...?
She's simply stating facts that many wouldn't dare date her...
what does she need to "concede to?" She said she wouldn't mind dating an Arab or Asian; she's attracted to them, but they might not accept her...what does @loveleest need to fix???...

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Mahmoud X

Original post by mrsjenner

Idk why you're implying that loveleest has the issue here...?
She's simply stating facts that many wouldn't dare date her...
what does she need to "concede to?" She said she wouldn't mind dating an Arab or Asian; she's attracted to them, but they might not accept her...what does @loveleest need to fix???...

it's not her fault if some them are closed minded, racist jackasses :smile:

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