Girl isn't on birth control wants sex with me, she's a virgin. It's turning me off.

She likely doesn't want to go on birth control because she's put off by the possible side effects of hormonal contraception and isn't comfortable with the idea of the copper coil. Obviously a femidom is non-hormonal/not as invasive as a coil so if that's the case she might be willing to try it.

Noted.

However, I do feel it's inappropriate especially for first time sex for the woman to be wearing a femidom when nearly always it is the woman who has the climaxing issues. Even if that may not be the case in this instance it still has an even higher chance of failure than a regular condom which doesn't bode well in my overly anxious mind.

bloody women with their climaxing issues

It's true though right?

A good first impression of sex is important. Keep her coming back for more

No need to rush into it I think...

I wouldn't know.

But earlier you were speaking with such an air of confidence and arrogance about you that you could have fooled me good sir!

wow i feel bad for your girlfriend, yoj want to dump her just to find someone who u dont have to use a condom for, birth control causes a lot of hormonal issues somtimes, and its not for everybody.


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Yeah, I know, less than 0.02% chance of pregnancy per sex act. HOWEVER. That's with perfect use conditions and I've never had sex with a condom. What if we are changing positions, it slips slightly, pre-cum spills? What if it is too big and slips off? Too thin and it tears? Or what if its just a **** condom and it breaks for pretty much no reason because manufacturing fault (that's the 0.02% chance I guess and I suppose that doesn't really bother me).

You don't sound ready. "I can't get there", "i can't use a condom", "i can't get her pregnant".

You don't know it yet,but you're making excuses. Make sure you're ready. I myself am allergic to the pill and have to use condoms, but my friend regularly forgets to take her pill so don't trust the fact that girls are telling you they have taken the pill, they can lie. None of my male friends will sleep with anyone without a condom because it is there, you can see it, you know it hasn't been pricked because you have bought it and have put it on.

Real life isn't like porn. It's not all about you and your manly needs. It is a serious commitment between two people. Both need to give consent, be comfortable and be safe.

Are you allergic to the patch, the jab and IUDs too btw? Just curious.

I've never tried them...why would i. My boyfriend is a man- he just slips a condom on, you know, like MEN do.

I don't even know why you are talking about real life and porn... Stop being so condescendingly sexist. I would prefer to avoid wearing a condom because I know I will not enjoy sex if I am to have it within a few weeks and wear a condom. That's not me being a selfish lover is it ffs? Would you really expect a girl to have sex to please her boyfriend who really wants to **** her even if she felt she wasn't ready and would not enjoy sex?

It's literally the same analogy. Just like a girl who isn't ready for sex will not be turned on, will be too dry and tight for the male to enjoy. I will not be turned on, will get a limp dick and the whole thing will just put her off. and that's only made worse by the fact that's she's a virgin and so a good first impression of sex will be really important for her.

Because your entire thread revolves around you and your needs and your actions. Yes you are selfish. Get a grip, and a life and grow the **** up. Heck, if you don't want to wear a condom, and she doesn't want to put that poisonous **** inside her body, that will make her gain weight, be moody and affect HER as a person in everyday life- dump her or get her pregnant. How will wearing a condom affect you negatively?! Poor little boy can't get it up.

Put up or shut up.

Don't complain to a student website. What the hell do you want us to do about it? We can't all walk over there and cram a pill down her throat or wack your dick out and put a condom on.

Silly little boy.

Because your entire thread revolves around you and your needs and your actions. Yes you are selfish. Get a grip, and a life and grow the **** up. Heck, if you don't want to wear a condom, and she doesn't want to put that poisonous **** inside her body, that will make her gain weight, be moody and affect HER as a person in everyday life- dump her or get her pregnant. How will wearing a condom affect you negatively?! Poor little boy can't get it up.

Put up or shut up.

Don't complain to a student website. What the hell do you want us to do about it? We can't all walk over there and cram a pill down her throat or wack your dick out and put a condom on.

Silly little boy.

@TorpidPhil Omfg. Just try it OP. You might like it

And how do you know what wet pussy feels like? People have sex with rubbers all the time. Having it raw obviously is better, it's juicy, warm and you can feel the muscles contracting ohh hoo hoooooooo lool

Sex with rubbers never stopped anybody who's sane.

You're probably just scared that you won't get turned on (not that you'd truly know) and will not be able to please her and will be traumatised as some lame f*ck. Get over that and get in there.

It's not even ****ing mental though. She was giving me a handjob and it felt worse then when she was stroking the hairs on my forearm ffs. I guess I hadn't really came up front about my masturbation addiction before... I need to deal with that first clearly before anything else. then I'll try the rubber. But I made the thread since she was asking me for sex in a few days time. I'm gonna have to be like noooo. Yet I let her give me a handjob. She's gonna be thinking wtf is wrong with this ****.

My brother

listen to me carefully ok


you need to lubricate

you don't just yank it out and go ham

you will hurt yourself

It's skin.

Imagine madly rubbing your naked dry arm for an hour straight

That **** will probably hurt.

Sex without lube especially jerking off causes hyper-stimulation
and it gets worn out faster/desensitises

So lube it up and make sure she knows wtf she's doing as well.

Yeah. I've killed my dick through over-masturbation. I REALISE THAT NOW. But it's kind of late... If I use lube now I just feel even less ffs. So I guess this is day 2 of the waiting game.

So this was never about rubbers, this was just about your penis struggles. Cool. Good luck Chuck.