So I’ve been with my partner for almost a year now, at the start we were having sex multiple times a day, always touchy and having fun, over the past 3 months there’s been a huge decrease, to as low as once every 2 weeks or even 3 weeks, she started antidepressants back in January, everything was fine for about a month then she started to get less interested, I don’t know if it’s the antidepressants or not but thought I would state here in the post as a contributing factor, she’s not stressed from what I can tell, but some odd behaviour being, she will rarely engage in sex like I said once every few weeks, she touches me down there and fondles on the daily, but if I try to touch her she says no I don’t want to be touched there, or if I try to initiate sex she will say no I’m not feeling it, even when she’s fondling me and just playing, it’s very odd, if we were laying on the sofa she would play with me, but never leads to anything I see no sense of her getting turned on, I ask why you play with it and she said because it’s calming and likes to hold and play with it, but that’s as far as that goes, we are close at night spoon in bed every night very loving and affectionate but lacks to build up to intercourse for some reason, she says she loves me a lot we are actually engaged to marry next year, is she not sexually attracted to me anymore, or is it the antidepressants just not letting her feel arosed, or is it that over time in relationships sex does dwindle over time, I find it odd she can touch me when ever she wants but I can’t to her unless she’s really in the mood for it witch I can’t even judge when anymore as I would normally take touching me as interested, any help or advice would be great, I do so much for this girl very loving caring and give her all my time in everything we do. But seems to lack that big spark from the start. I don’t want to get insecure or feel unloved l, she shows it in many other ways everyday, from saying I love you to holding hands to kissing, but just lacks sex at the end of the day. Maybe I still have my high labido still from the start of relationship but hers drops during it, any advice on how to spice things up, or get her intrested I’ve tried dressing up nice every day, putting my smellys on lol nothing works. Very odd