i’m cheating i need advice

Sounds like u being groomed by the 24 yo guy icl

i’m not sure if i am, but either way he used to be my manager which is how i met him. i can’t seem to end things with either one of them. esp since my bf pulled out a knife on himself when i tried to leave him a year ago and i still care about him

Okay so backround info i’m a minor and i’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he’s done unforgivable stuff to me that everyone told me i should leave him for but i stuck by his side and i still feel trapped and i don’t want to make him sad by leaving.

i meant a 24yr guy we’ve been texting for a while and he wants to meet up once i’m 18 and i feel horrible for talking to him. but i don’t want either of them out of my life even tho my bfs messed up. any advice you guys can be brutal it’s fine

Either way you’re still a minor. It’s borderline grooming and should be reported to higher authorities. Stay safe from pe*d**hil*s please it’s a dangerous world we live in❤️

no the main issue is that 24 yr old guy, report him immediately and block him.

i think i might like him though

But you're a child. And he's a fully grown man. It's not right. He will not think the same way as you do, his interests will be very different to yours. And if he's stringing you along unfortunately that's considered grooming to most people. Heck some would call him a p*d*

we’ve sexted multiple times and spoke about having a relationship in the future but ur right

Serious question have you asked him if he knows he's a pedo because if he's 24 and sexting a minor that means he finds you sexually appealing and that's the disturbing thing even if he says wait till you are 18 he has already overstepped the mark. He can get in a ton of legal trouble especially if nudes are involved. Lose his job and find it hard getting jobs in the future. Among other things

Are you a young minor (below 16)? If so then I agree with the other anon, you may be being groomed and buttered up by the 24 year old.

Also might I add "and i don’t want to make him sad by leaving." is not a good enough reason to stick around if he has abused you, or continues to.

"but i don’t want either of them out of my life even tho my bfs messed up" so this is telling me you're happy to be a cheat? Two wrongs don't make a right. I think you should get rid of both, you're young and impressionable, and I highly doubt you have a lot in common with this 24 year old. His brain will be fully developed while yours is still in progress.

i’m not happy to cheat at all i’m ashamed, im explaining the reason i think i like him is cause my current relationship isn’t good, not cause the older guy is grooming me into liking him

Cheating isn't the issue. When you are young you make mistakes but getting groomed by a pedophile is something that can ruin your life.

i’m almost 18 but he said he liked me two weeks into me starting that job which would be around 6 months ago, but i just told him we should stop talking and he seems like he understands

he said he knows the age difference is weird, and that it took him a lot of courage to get my number (he didn’t ask me he got it from my work paperwork). he also told me having sex with a minor and sexting a minor is different so we can’t have sex until i turn 18 (his words)