Online dating advice needed! Short version

I doubt you look as bad as you think you do. You're probably just self-conscious. Just do whatever you want to do, but try to have some confidence it always helps to have it after all.

Much shorter version of my original post.
I met a guy online he made it clear he only wants casual sex, once he found out I was virgin he was a little hesitant about meeting and everything as he didn't want to hurt as in me developing feelings. I told him was ok with it.. The photos he's seen of me he likes but I took them in such a way that it hides certain parts of me. Basically I'm 2/3 stone over weight, double chin, and what I'm most self conscious about is my granny boobs. They're big, horrible shape and they sag. He's pretty much the opposite, he's sporty so in very good shape. I want to meet him but my looks are stopping me. Everything has been put on hold as he thinks I'm not ready and he doesn't want to hurt me in any way. So confused about it all please help!

I don't think this guy is worth meeting if just wants to hook up, sounds like a shallow guy. Why don't you send him a pic thats a realistic representaion of you and you will be able to see how he would respond if he saw you in person. Honestly this guy doesn't sound like he's worth your time.

why is this slut shaming of men acceptable ? if he just wants to hook up that is his right and its good that he told her in advance.

Lol wth, all sluts are terrible im not shaming him just cause hes a guy, im a guy myself. I was just saying someone who's just looking for sex isn't worth meeting, Why do the PC brigade always have to get me lol

surely if they're both just looking for sex whats the problem. it's a mutually beneficial situation.

lol fine let them **** i guess

Honestly, the best thing to do would be to post a full-length body picture - so that he can decide whether he's interested or not. And if he is, then you can stop worrying about it and relax. If not, it's better to find out early on.

It's all well and good posting flattering photos of yourself, everyone does. However if you're giving a deceptive image of yourself then you're only going to make the first date awkward - even if the weight wouldn't be a problem, the deception looks bad - and is frankly quite rude.

I know what you mean. Probably think I'm overreacting. But I honestly think I look hideous dressed or undressed and against him I'd look even worse. I'm wondering if I should tell him that I don't exactly have the best body. Just to 'prepare' him. But I don't know how to go about this.