I'm avoiding lactose because I've realised it makes me feel quite sick. I don't do so well with wheat either, but I tend to eat it anyway. I just make sure I choose when to eat it wisely, so it doesn't bother me as much. I tried going wheat free a few years ago, but it was something of a nightmare. I still feel quite sickly and bloated a lot, and feel a lot better when I stick to very simple and fresh meals, but because of the CFS it's too difficult to make these for myself a lot. I will, at one point, explore this more though