I feel like I have failed my teenage years, I have failed the me of 5 years ago

Don't go out of your way to look/talk to girls- I personally believe that puts them off.

Socialise and you'll naturally find yourself talking to a girl and by the sounds of it's your traits will naturally attract them.

Don't go out of your way to look/talk to girls- I personally believe that puts them off.

Socialise and you'll naturally find yourself talking to a girl and by the sounds of it's your traits will naturally attract them.

Hi, I am your female counterpart!

(The only difference between you and me is that I have spoken with and hugged three guys before.)

I would give you advice, but I am in more or less the same situation, so...

I can only guess that you may not be around your kind of people, that you may always be the third wheel in a group of people who have known each other for X years, that you may not have self-confidence, that you may be seen as having a certain flaw (boring, annoying, unsociable, overly sensitive, etc, whether that is true or not), that you may not seem to be a fun person to be around (which is most likely inaccurate, but people's perceptions matter a lot in this area) or that you may not even try to talk to girls in the first place. Luckily, people's opinions are influenceable and if you find the cause of the problem, you can easily pluck it from the root.

I need more context to say anything for sure, though.

I am an 18 year old boy who can never attract good friends (they always make fun of me ,disrespect etc)

I am 18 year old who cant even become friends with a girl -.-, I mean I have never whatsapped a girl. Basically I have never been friends with a girl

I have never kissed,hugged or flirted with a girl

No matter how hard i try noone ever is interested in me. LIKE WTF AM I DOING WRONG.

I am not ugly at all, I am average height, I have good grades, I am outgoing.

Hey I have been talking to people who have known each other for lots of years so i can understand that but i still see it as meh.

Idk if I am boring I can make people laugh easily

I socialise in school , I am popular but also lonely. I dont understand

Yeah, well, whenever I moved to a new school where EVERYONE I knew had been friends for 3-10 years (which happened twice), I did not have much luck since I was an outsider. They did try to include me and I appreciated it, but it is extremely difficult to find yourself a place among a group who has known each other for so long. (This goes double if they are the type of friends who go out together, sleep over at each other's places, and throw their own small parties while they never invite you to anything.)

That means you are most likely not boring.

So, you said you are popular. Have you considered that maybe girls may not talk to you since they do not know how to approach you? Most girls wait to be approached; they hardly ever initiate a friendship or relationship. Try talking to girls first.

I guess i did approach a girl, she was horrible and that just lowered my self esteem

She was the exception, not the rule. Try another girl who seems nice.

I guess i did approach a girl, she was horrible and that just lowered my self esteem

No matter how hard i try noone ever is interested in me. LIKE WTF AM I DOING WRONG.