Break up or not?

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, she's like a bestfriend to me. At the start we got along amazing, had cute dates, everything was going perfect. Thenwe had some mad arguments and went through a pretty rough patch. We've sorted those differences out though, but recently we've started having silly little spats over stupid things- and now I'm just not feeling the relationship :/

I know the sensible thing to do is split up, but I'm worried that if I do then I'll be losing my best mate, and that I may not be able to find another

Any suggestions?

As ever, the answer is talk about it.
Relationships wont be all sunshine and roses, sometimes it will take a bit of effort to make work.
When you start arguing, think about her side of the argument and her point of view. If you are wrong admit it.
Breaking up is the cheap way out in this case imo.

I understand the pain and frustration here. I've been in your situation before.
Talk it out. Maybe ask her friends. Have a night out and see how it goes because if you break up she might not respect you anymore and then the friendship will be wasted.
Best advice i can give you is never ever date a best friend because then you will never get them back because you would argue. Although, they know you like no-one else.

What do you feel like is best??

What made you lose your attraction for her?

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If it's possible to fix it having a good conversation, do just that.
Personally, I wasn't into my "boyfriend" that much (first relationship, so got too nervous and said yes without thinking) and I think he was quite serious. I felt I was being unfair to him because I didn't feel the same. I wanted to put a stop to it. Obviously, I didn't say I am not into you anymore but yeah we broke up (I said I have "too much going on" etc). We still talk, sometimes. It took a lot of courage because i hate hurting people but I feel much more relieved now.

Its a horrible situation

We went for a night out but I didn't really enjoy it as were both so drunk haha.

Yeah that's good advice, before we started dating we didn't really know each other, but since the first date we've just grown into a couple who are also now best friends, and I feel I can't leave her as I'll be breaking her heart and mine as well.

I really don't know, I mean I can't talk to her by saying I'm not physically attracted to her anymore, because that won't go down well haha

Yeah I'm seeing her tomorrow so hopefully we can talk it through.
Ah I see, yeah I feel like that is similar to me, although I feel too attached personality wise to let her go

I don't know really, I've just found myself wanting to be single and looking at other girls in a way a guy happy in his relationship shouldn't