Any other Asian guys "put off" from approaching white girls?

I don't mean in terms of anything to do with the girls but to do with the associated stigma regarding Asian guys and white girls.

If I'm interested in a girl but she's white, I'll always feel put off from pursuing anything because of how society views these relationships. I feel like the girl or guy is more likely to be judged in this relationship and so it's off putting and can be said for both the women and the guys in this situation.

Another thing that comes into my mind is regarding how white girls will perceive being approached by/dating an Asian guy. I always feel like I have to prove I'm not a walking stereotype and that I'm chill. Like white girls will be put off from the get go because of being Asian and so it's like an uphill battle. Hence, it makes me doubt approaching them as I feel like it'd be a waste of time to try.

Any other Asian guys feel like this? Girls what do you think? Sorry I had to specifically point of white girls but the stigma is associated around there.

It just depends on the girl as well - in my experience I've not been rejected because I'm Asian, just a million other things that are wrong with me

With a lot of things, you just have to screw what anyone else thinks - you don't have to look much further than somewhere like London for interracial couples, including Asian guys with white girls

It just depends on the girl as well - in my experience I've not been rejected because I'm Asian, just a million other things that are wrong with me

I personally wouldn’t be put off by a guy approaching me just cuz he’s Asian, but I know my Asian friends think it’s super creepy and dodgy if an Asian guy is interested in a white girl which I don’t understand . I hadn’t really considered it being a stigma before, but from this thread I see what you mean. I wish it wasn’t this way, I know it’s hard enough to work up the confidence to talk to someone else without worrying about what society thinks.

I don't mean in terms of anything to do with the girls but to do with the associated stigma regarding Asian guys and white girls.

If I'm interested in a girl but she's white, I'll always feel put off from pursuing anything because of how society views these relationships. I feel like the girl or guy is more likely to be judged in this relationship and so it's off putting and can be said for both the women and the guys in this situation.

Another thing that comes into my mind is regarding how white girls will perceive being approached by/dating an Asian guy. I always feel like I have to prove I'm not a walking stereotype and that I'm chill. Like white girls will be put off from the get go because of being Asian and so it's like an uphill battle. Hence, it makes me doubt approaching them as I feel like it'd be a waste of time to try.

Any other Asian guys feel like this? Girls what do you think? Sorry I had to specifically point of white girls but the stigma is associated around there.

I don't mean in terms of anything to do with the girls but to do with the associated stigma regarding Asian guys and white girls.

If I'm interested in a girl but she's white, I'll always feel put off from pursuing anything because of how society views these relationships. I feel like the girl or guy is more likely to be judged in this relationship and so it's off putting and can be said for both the women and the guys in this situation.

Another thing that comes into my mind is regarding how white girls will perceive being approached by/dating an Asian guy. I always feel like I have to prove I'm not a walking stereotype and that I'm chill. Like white girls will be put off from the get go because of being Asian and so it's like an uphill battle. Hence, it makes me doubt approaching them as I feel like it'd be a waste of time to try.

Any other Asian guys feel like this? Girls what do you think? Sorry I had to specifically point of white girls but the stigma is associated around there.

or maybe its cos you know you're likely to get rejected anyway, thats why you don't approach