Luke 15:11-32
A certain man had two sons: And the younger of them said to his father, Father,
give me the portion of goods that falls to me. And he divided unto them his living.
To be a son with your inheritance you need to have received God's Spirit (Acts 2:4 etc)
so if that's not you this parable is not for you ...
And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country,
and there wasted his substance with riotous living.
Bad decision based on poor understanding . . . he didn't value or appreciate what he had received or what might be achieved by staying with The Father, the pleasures of "the flesh" seemed better
And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want.
And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine.
he became a servant to a stranger with different values doing what he would have been brought up to despise.
And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him.
And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare,
and I perish with hunger!
he's emptied out, hit rock bottom, learned the hard way
I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee,
And am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants.
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him,
and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
This response would have been a shock to him.
repentance brings love and mercy ...
And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight,
and am no more worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servants,
Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet:
And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry:
If you choose to be a son, you can expect the best that the father has, you give him more happiness than all the stuff!
For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.
And they began to be merry. Now his elder son was in the field: and as he came and drew nigh to the house,
he heard music and dancing. And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant.
And he said unto him, Thy brother is come; and thy father hath killed the fatted calf,
because he hath received him safe and sound. And he was angry,
His heart is revealed!
Outwardly this Christian is "goody two shoes", he doesn't do "bad" things ... but he doesn't appreciate love, mercy, grace or his father, because he doesn't live by these things. This guy's focus is on service, his works, stuff, he has his own friends and a servant-master "relationship" with his father, like religion.
and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him. And he answering said to his father,
Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment:
and you never gave me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends:
But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots,
thou hast killed for him the fatted calf.
And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine.
It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.
He could have had a memorable fatted calf celebration with his friends at least once a year for many years!
He never even used so much as a kid! ... he also wasted his inheritance.
What happened next ... you can find out in your own life.
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