So, I've been really ill (I have a rare condition and doctors don't know what it is yet). I don't have much family and all my friends have full time jobs. I connected with a guy friend I knew a while ago who was also going through difficulties and had recently lost his job and so was homeless. He was going to go back to live with his parents but I asked him if he wanted to stay at mine (I have a huge place) and he obliged. This guy is very keen on me and wants to be in a relationship etc but I told him I'm too ill to think about any of that at the moment (which I genuinely am). He was OK with that and he's been extremely helpful in looking out for me.
Anyway, he has no money which is fine because I had savings so we've been living off those for the past 3 weeks but my savings are starting to run out. He had a bit of money and he paid for food and electric once, but everything else we've done - from rent to bills to places we've been to, little things for him like cigarettes etc has been paid for by me. He's getting paid from his last job soon and looking for a new one but he hasn't mentioned helping out with anything once he gets paid.
When I brought up the subject of that I'd struggle with bills etc until my ESA came through and asked if he could help out he mentioned I could get a crisis loan.
On the one hand, I did ask him to stay, but on the other, he was really happy to stay and if he's going to stay any further, I really feel we should split bills and rent etc, especially if he's working and I'm on ESA. Am I being unreasonable and how do I bring it up?
When he did have some money, he told me he spent it all on presents for me (which he didn't), but anyway, I really prefer help with the rent to presents but how do I breach this subject?