Female Domination..

my bf is in to submission and while being abusive isn't really my thing I don't mind being dominant so I "torture" him, do him up the bum with a strap on and all around be in change sometimes.
I mean, it doesn't really do it for me but I love the guy so I do what makes him happy.

I think the key is to find someone who is open to these things but don't let the relationship become one sided. Remember that what pleases you doesn't necessarily please her and that if she's making an effort for you you should do the same. That said, there are obviously women out there who dream of guys like you.

I also think it's important to just have 'normal' sex sometimes, that's what's needed to really feel close. Nobody being in charge, nobody objectifying anyone else, just two people being with each other.

my bf is in to submission and while being abusive isn't really my thing I don't mind being dominant so I "torture" him, do him up the bum with a strap on and all around be in change sometimes.
I mean, it doesn't really do it for me but I love the guy so I do what makes him happy.

I think the key is to find someone who is open to these things but don't let the relationship become one sided. Remember that what pleases you doesn't necessarily please her and that if she's making an effort for you you should do the same. That said, there are obviously women out there who dream of guys like you.

I also think it's important to just have 'normal' sex sometimes, that's what's needed to really feel close. Nobody being in charge, nobody objectifying anyone else, just two people being with each other.

girls tend to prefer being on the receiving end of that sort of thing.

You sick bastard. I'll teach you a thing or two

loljk.

I like the sound of you

I thought this would be a lot more unusual than the reponses above.

I do think it's a bit immature and closed-minded to go 'wtf', but equally I thought a lot of girls would just be into conventional sexual relations, or prefer to be dominated.

I don't know what's so arousing about being subject to being spat on, a foot slave, verbal humiliation, etc, but I read somewhere there's a psychology behind it, i.e. people in power positions prefer it.

i try

So how would one teach one a lesson?

For my own kinky curiosity..

I'm a guy and I'm more of the submissive type than the dominant type in bedroom matters.

I just find it unusual, most guys I know prefer to be dominant, and sometimes I do, but I prefer being abused, kicked about, spat on, degraded, kicked in the groin, etc.

This being more of a fantasy than reality but I had an understanding girlfriend once who did one or two of these things, and didn't mind foot fetishism either.

I can't explain it - It's like my strong confidence in life is turned into a desire to be overpowered sexually in the bedroom.

What do you guys think, therapy required?

I'm a guy and I'm more of the submissive type than the dominant type in bedroom matters.

I just find it unusual, most guys I know prefer to be dominant, and sometimes I do, but I prefer being abused, kicked about, spat on, degraded, kicked in the groin, etc.

This being more of a fantasy than reality but I had an understanding girlfriend once who did one or two of these things, and didn't mind foot fetishism either.

I can't explain it - It's like my strong confidence in life is turned into a desire to be overpowered sexually in the bedroom.

What do you guys think, therapy required?

S&M!! This reminds me of an episode in "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" where it's explained that some men like to be degraded & bossed around & sometimes physically... idk...whipped or whatever in the bedroom. Reasons being could be because they lead such a life where they are in control or in high powered jobs or are used to bossing ppl around, that they want to be submissive in the bedroom for whatever reason, to feel that they aren't in control for once! Or it could just be a fetish!

Anon, people I know on here.....

I had a boyfriend who really liked this, was very strange as he is the complete opposite in any other situation.
I ended up liking dominating him a bit too much.....

definite therapy required, not for the fetish but for the urge to troll