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The power of the pussy

Women have all the power over men when it comes to interpersonal relationships.

I'm not saying all women connivingly or even deliberately use their vaginas as weapons against men, just that something is seriously wrong with society when women are in such an elevated position when it comes to sexual/personal relationships. To give an extreme example, in a club women are accorded a far superior status over men. So many men struggle with how to act in a club to pick up women. Typical advice on here and elsewhere is 'be more confident'. But that's empty advice really. It's like telling a depressed person to 'snap out of it'. Whereas for women, looks are all important, so they have to look more attractive by wearing nice clothes and doing their make-up and hair nice. Costly, but so much easier than 'being more confident'.

There are thousands of books and courses on how to pick up women. Men are really struggling with this thing. And as those men who are 'alpha', well-built, naturally confident etc., are working their way through (excuse the phrase) countless women, the average guy is finding it harder and harder. I think I remember reading before that it is supposedly a small group of men who are having sex with most women, meaning they have multiple partners, leaving most guys in no man's land.

Take another example which demonstrates the superior sexual power of women over men: the internet. Look on online dating websites: women are bombarded with messages, hardly ever message first, and guys have to almost perform miracles to get any attention. You hear stories of men sending pictures of their penises to women, who then inevitably go 'eww what a weirdo'. Now, if a women was to send a guy a picture of her vagina, he'd be like, 'sweet!'. So why is this? Why is the power of the pussy so dominant?

I think a large part of this whole thing is celebrity culture where everything is idealised. Women want their 'ken', men want their barbie. That's inculcated from an extremely young age. Slightly later, girls are indoctrinated into viewing disney heartthrobs as the ideal man, and then pop stars like Bieber and then big time male actors like DiCaprio etc. And of course, because in movies all actors appear super confident because it's scripted, girls get an inaccurate representation of what guys are like. They want their hollywood, perfect romance. Hence they'll only settle for alpha guys. Similarly, guys see extremely hot girls in porn, and are not longer attracted by average looking girls. They want their hot, perfectly made up girl with nice hair, slim body etc.

Now I'm not saying these are the exclusive causes of what I'm describing, but I think they have exacerbated the problem in recent times. Afterall, the power of the pussy is ancient. Rulers have gone to war, murders have been committed, civilisations have fallen, because of the power of the pussy.

Notice that all what I have said so far has not even got onto the women who deliberately wield their pussy as a weapon by playing off men against each other, withholding it in relationships, being bitchy in clubs, teasing men etc. I have not gone into detail because I know that doesn't apply to most women.

In a nutshell, I get tired of feminists who claim men have so much power over women in all spheres of life, when it simply isn't true. Sure, in the wider and deeper scheme of things, men generally do have the power over women. It is definitely a patriarchal society we live in. But feminists do not seem to acknowledge that is women who increasingly have the power when it comes to interpersonal relationships, arguably the most important sphere in life.

One last point. Am I bitter? Well, I am not an alpha male. If I had women hanging off my arm all the time, I probably wouldn't have even given much thought to the above points. But, this doesn't mean I can't make my own observations. Please don't take this the wrong way; I love women, and spending time with them if probably the best pleasure life has to offer. It's just that I think something is seriously wrong when they have been elevated to god-like status when it comes to sexual relations. The power of the pussy is phenomenal and unhealthy in a world where we should strive for equality and fairness.
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Reply 1
Why would I read a thread entitled "The power of the pussy," written by someone from Essex?
Original post by spazman21
Why would I read a thread entitled "The power of the pussy," written by someone from Essex.


It's actually more disturbing that, I as a woman, read it.
And more disturbing that I'm disappointed at its timidity :frown:
Because men want women more than women want men? Perhaps not biologically, but psychologically they seem to now.
That would be an excellent title for a book op!
Reply 5
Original post by S129439
Because men want women more than women want men? Perhaps not biologically, but psychologically they seem to now.


That's exactly what I'm saying. Something has gone wrong - women and men should want each other equally.
Original post by Reflexive
That's exactly what I'm saying. Something has gone wrong - women and men should want each other equally.


I think it may be to do with the whole 'alpha-male' thing. Biologically, males are supposed to impressive and "win over" the female. Basically, we have the burden of impressing the female, they only need judge and agree. Therefore the best males (the alpha-males) get all the girls. And girls who don't have anyone remain single and wait for the alpha-male to come around to them.

Just my guess.
Reply 7
If you put pussy on a pedestal, you deserve to be controlled by it.
Reply 8
Well. This isn't as simple or as recent as you seem to be making out. You have millenia of religious oppression and centuries of societal pressure for women to be lovely wittle maidens on top of their intrinsically selective biology to thank for that.



It's not like some motherbitch woke up one day and told all women in the world to set forth and forever deny The Pussy™.
Original post by Mujeriego
Well. This isn't as simple or as recent as you seem to be making out. You have millenia of religious oppression and centuries of societal pressure for women to be lovely wittle maidens on top of their intrinsically selective biology to thank for that.



It's not like some motherbitch woke up one day and told all women in the world to set forth and forever deny The Pussy™.


You obviously didn't read this paragraph:

Now I'm not saying these are the exclusive causes of what I'm describing, but I think they have exacerbated the problem in recent times. Afterall, the power of the pussy is ancient. Rulers have gone to war, murders have been committed, civilisations have fallen, because of the power of the pussy.
Reply 10
Your post is an accurate description.

However, you'll get lots of hate from girls who won't take it seriously because you used the phrase "use their pussy as a weapon". They'll immediatly dismiss your points and point out how rediculous it is you watch.
Reply 11
Original post by S129439
I think it may be to do with the whole 'alpha-male' thing. Biologically, males are supposed to impressive and "win over" the female. Basically, we have the burden of impressing the female, they only need judge and agree. Therefore the best males (the alpha-males) get all the girls. And girls who don't have anyone remain single and wait for the alpha-male to come around to them.

Just my guess.


Spot on. It's also why women, generally speaking, have it a lot easier than men.
I've stopped wasting time on getting women, because they are frankly not worth all the trouble/hassle. Not worth it at all.
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when it comes to equality between the sexes, there is none.

Society has tried so damn hard to make everything equal (which ofcourse is good), but thinges have not turned out that way.

Sadly, women now have too much power over men, which is why, as time goes on, girls are becoming bigger and bigger douche bags. (not all of them, but the number of female douches is definatly on the rise).

Obviously, there are some genuine girls out there, that aren't obsessed with money/status/showing off to their friends and living a 'WAG lifestyle', but their becoming harder and harder to find!

But due to this extreme shift in power, men are more frequently putting women on pedastals, and willing to accommodate this d!ckish behaviour...

sad sign of the times...

Im sure im going to get negged by the people that didn't bother to read my post properly, and missed the part where I said "not all women are like that", but what can you do, this is TSR, reading has never been a strong point on this site.,.lol at the irony.
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Original post by Gemma :)!
It's actually more disturbing that, I as a woman, read it.
And more disturbing that I'm disappointed at its timidity :frown:


What? :confused:
Original post by Reflexive

Whereas for women, looks are all important, so they have to look more attractive by wearing nice clothes and doing their make-up and hair nice. Costly, but so much easier than 'being more confident'.


not easy if you're an ugly woman... ;____;
Reply 15
Nobody worships my pussy :sad:
Reply 16
Original post by sil3nt_cha0s
What? :confused:


She means its abit of an understatement.

Not sure it is an understatement because not ALL girls act like that but it is true that society is like that, and that a vast majority of girls abuse it.
Original post by sil3nt_cha0s
You obviously didn't read this paragraph:


That is just a description of the events that happened as a result of the inbalance. It is by no means a definitive explanation or outline as to why this perceived inequality actually exists. Anyway. As an aside and not really aimed at you; I have noticed that this forum and the views expressed on here are extremely detached from 'real life'. Especially Health and Relationships.



It's just...bizarre. :s-smilie:
Original post by Mujeriego
That is just a description of the events that happened as a result of the inbalance. It is by no means a definitive explanation or outline as to why this perceived inequality actually exists. Anyway. As an aside and not really aimed at you; I have noticed that this forum and the views expressed on here are extremely detached from 'real life'. Especially Health and Relationships.



It's just...bizarre. :s-smilie:


In what ways have you personally found them to be 'extremely detached from real life'?
Reply 19
Original post by freakingout!


sad sign of the times...


You mean sign of the end of the times?

Back in the days women stayed at home, cooked nice foods, cared for their husbands and made sure little babies were disciplined.

Nowadays women just want to become men.

How has feminism liberated women when women have to work twice as hard as they did before? It just doesn't make sense!

One of my conspiracy nut pal always tells me that feminism was created because the elites wanted the other half to pay taxes. I am kinda starting to believe that cosnpiracy now. What you boys think?

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