Dear 'nice guys'
Guess what, the world doesn't give a **** about you being nice, internalize
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
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Bop! And there it is!
Oh it's another one of these threads...
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
Original post by Pussy Galore
Guess what, the world doesn't give a **** about you being nice, internalize
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
Your account name indicates nobody should pay attention or even care about what you have to say.
Sorry, not sorry.
Original post by Phoebe Buffay
Oh it's another one of these threads...
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
If you had a job, what would you do?
Original post by Pussy Galore
If you had a job, what would you do?
Mathematician
facial aesthetics is EVERYTHING
(edited 9 years ago)
Original post by Greg Jackson
facial aesthetics is EVERYTHING
Basically, don't be beta, be alpha.
Original post by tehforum
dis gon b gud
I reckon you need a mix of the 'good guy' traits, and the traits that you described though.
I reckon you need a mix of the 'good guy' traits, and the traits that you described though.
The problem is 'nice guy' has become a bit of a snivelling word for socially and sexually impotent deadbeats.
It's a catch all term for girls to throw at guys who frankly have little genuinely stimulating to the opposite sex about them.
Most can probably improve their game and appearance with some modest effort. many will never see the light.
More poon for the rest of us.
Except I'm in a steady relationship, soo...more poon for you guys. And girls?
We're all equal opportunity sexually successful folk here!
Original post by AstroNandos
Basically, don't be beta, be alpha.
we're not chimpanzees
I do think it doesn't say much about you if the best thing you can say is that you're a "nice guy". That should be a given, it's like being proud that you don't have a criminal record.
Doesn't matter how attractive your face is if you're 5 foot tall. And an ugly face can be counterbalanced by a good body, confidence, a great sense of humour, a good job (albeit that's not so helpful when you're young) etc.
It's not that black and whit.
Pretty much everyone is materialistic. I think most girls would rather have a boyfriend who can look after himself and buy nice things than a hermit who rejects material objects and goes and lives in the jungle to be in touch with nature and the circle of life.
Original post by Greg Jackson
facial aesthetics is EVERYTHING
Doesn't matter how attractive your face is if you're 5 foot tall. And an ugly face can be counterbalanced by a good body, confidence, a great sense of humour, a good job (albeit that's not so helpful when you're young) etc.
It's not that black and whit.
Original post by Phoebe Buffay
Oh it's another one of these threads...
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
You know, it sounds like you are quite a materialistic person, that's not so attractive.
Pretty much everyone is materialistic. I think most girls would rather have a boyfriend who can look after himself and buy nice things than a hermit who rejects material objects and goes and lives in the jungle to be in touch with nature and the circle of life.
Could've put it better but i generally agree 
(edited 9 years ago)
Original post by xmertic
Your account name indicates nobody should pay attention or even care about what you have to say.
Sorry, not sorry.
Sorry, not sorry.
That reply indicates you aren't familiar with the greatest Bond film, which indicates nobody should pay attention or even care about what you have to say...
OP is putting it in a bit of a looks obsessed way, but he's right in that people need to realise being "nice", in itself, is barely even a trait.
Original post by tengentoppa
Pretty much everyone is materialistic. I think most girls would rather have a boyfriend who can look after himself and buy nice things than a hermit who rejects material objects and goes and lives in the jungle to be in touch with nature and the circle of life.
I think you are presenting a false choice here because the first man you present here is not materialistic. Materialism (in the economic sense) is the excessive need to gain material goods which was not highlighted in your example. He could be as you described but still care about other things.
I called the OP materialistic because all the emphasis was put on the importance of material goods
Why do I have to change myself to make someone like me? Shouldn't I just be who I want to be?
Original post by Mankytoes
That reply indicates you aren't familiar with the greatest Bond film, which indicates nobody should pay attention or even care about what you have to say...
OP is putting it in a bit of a looks obsessed way, but he's right in that people need to realise being "nice", in itself, is barely even a trait.
OP is putting it in a bit of a looks obsessed way, but he's right in that people need to realise being "nice", in itself, is barely even a trait.
So why do you think I care what you have to say?
The OP is silly. I agree, you can't rely on being nice to get in to a relationship. But he put it the completely wrong way.
Original post by Pussy Galore
Guess what, the world doesn't give a **** about you being nice, internalize
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
that now.
What the world gives a **** about is what you bring to the table, people have needs do you have the goods to meet those needs.
Write down 5 good things about yourself now.
Are you writing things like "I'm nice" "I'm caring" etc?
If so then you are doing it wrong
Instead try and write about things you can do or have
I.e
"I have a well paying prestigous job" "I am attending a prestigous university" "I have a six pack"
"I'm really good at talking to strangers" "I'm really good at a rugby" etc etc
You know that cute zoey desachanel lookalike at the bookstore? Yeah well she has needs too, she doesn't spend all that money on beauty products to end up with a fat no lifer. You have to make yourself into somebody who she is attracted to, you have to meet her needs and then you can have her meet yours, you want a sexy cute girlfriend? Then be a sexy guy.
The reason why some girls go for 'jerks' is not because being a jerk is attractive, its because these jerks have other things to offer, like a smoking hot body they've been putting hours in the gym to get, whilst you were jacking off to youporn and playing call of duty.
Being nice just isn't good enough, so improve yourself and offer what others need as you are not owed anything, you can only get what you give in value, if you are low value you will not get a 10/10 girl. If you can't motivate yourself then pack your **** and leave this thread, misery is comfortable, happiness takes hard work.
What happened to not changing for anyone?
I agree with you in that it's not all about being "nice" but there's gotta be a balance. I don't give a **** whether someone's got a "smoking hot body", if their personality's horrendous, I'm not interested.
There's a little more to it than just trying to impress someone with your job and your looks
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