I've done something quite bad

This is nothing.

That's not too bad

I was genuinely so drunk.

Ah, society today. How I loathe thee.

Ah, society today. How I loathe thee.

The excuse I was waiting to hear.

Which refers to my first post i made: "you'll probably do it again"

Like I said, it's not really your problem. The guy is in the "bigger" wrong

She knew he wasn't single beforehand. She allowed herself to get groped which is just as equally "bit bad" in my eyes.

Society is the same as it always has been.

Ah, society today. How I loathe thee.

Drunk guy with girlfriend hugs and "touches" single girl? Girl in wrong. Okay. Have a nice day.

That is undoubtedly one of the most idiotic sentences I have read on TSR and possibly anywhere.

Doesn't say he groped her... Just said they hugged? Also, I wouldn't say she was in the wrong, it's not like she initiated it. Would have been a bit odd if he went in for a hug and she got out the pepper spray.

I said nothing about the OP being especially wrong; drop the female victim complex. You said the incident wasn't that bad and that depresses me.

I didn't mean all aspects of society. People making drunken mistakes like this, people cheating on their relationships, the idea of having affairs and all of that has been around for centuries. It's nothing new.

It wasn't for her. Obviously the guy in question needs to have a serious think about his feelings towards his girlfriend. Why should she feel bad about it? What use is that going to be?

Don't be dense. " touch me all over my clothes" it's clearly groping. Read the OP again.

She may or may not have initiated it but she didn't stop it.

Pathetic.

Actually it just says "touched me over my clothes" which could mean anything. So what if he did? If he wants to cheat on his girlfriend that's his decision. Doesn't sound like she initiated it or led him on. Maybe she did stop it? Or maybe she stopped it going further? What is she supposed to do? Put on a nuns habit and sit in a dark room repenting?

It wasn't for her. Obviously the guy in question needs to have a serious think about his feelings towards his girlfriend. Why should she feel bad about it? What use is that going to be?

She knew he had a girlfriend. Would you be so tolerant of the other party's wilful cheating if it was your boyfriend the OP let fondle her? I doubt it. The OP feels bad because she knows what she did was wrong, to her credit. Feeling bad about doing bad things serves the highly useful purpose of motivating us not to repeat our mistakes and often also to try to redeem ourselves. This is known as a 'conscience'.

Actually it just says "touched me over my clothes" which could mean anything. So what if he did? If he wants to cheat on his girlfriend that's his decision. Doesn't sound like she initiated it or led him on. Maybe she did stop it? Or maybe she stopped it going further? What is she supposed to do? Put on a nuns habit and sit in a dark room repenting?

Because she knew he has a gf? I imagine she wouldn't like to be cheated on, so why should she help others cheat?