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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    In most cases just shutting up is a lot better than babbling. Its easier to look cool that way.
    That's my problem, i can't shut up, even when I am with friends I talk way too much. I also tend to overanylise things, which really annoys a lot of people.
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    (Original post by chats)
    why not?!
    There are several reasons:

    1) The girl might already have a boyfriend/husband
    2) Some girls have very high standards
    3) Some girls have a "type" and only date within that type
    4) You can say or do things that'll please a girl.. but she won't be attained unless she likes your looks and personality.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    Why does it seem that whenever a meet a girl I really like and have loads on common with, she either doesn't like me at all, or is just in a very akward place.
    maybe your too odd, too ugly, not very interesting, obsessed with the girl in question....whatever! i dunno....but i reckon...even if you were none of these things, it doesnt mean that all girls are gonna wanna jump into bed with you. women are complicated things my friend - i direct you to my thread entitled women are (insert expletive here) or something of that sort.....

    adn just reading down here...and judging from what you've said in the past (or at least that whole thing with im leaving and then not leaving or whatever it was)...im thinking that maybe you are a little odd, and thus should find someone on the same kinda wavelength......who knows....
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    There are several reasons:

    1) The girl might already have a boyfriend/husband
    2) Some girls have very high standards
    3) Some girls have a "type" and only date within that type
    4) You can say or do things that'll please a girl.. but she won't be attained unless she likes your looks and personality.
    oh yeh i forgot those, ive never had problems though
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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    So do I, and it did used to irritate people, but now I can somehow make interesting observations, or add humour, so its actually entertaining rather than annoying. I don't know how that came about though :confused:
    you have had a taste of my humour once or twice, you know that my humour is not appreciated by most people and I tend to make observations that are interesting to me, but to no-one else.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    you have had a taste of my humour once or twice, you know that my humour is not appreciated by most people and I tend to make observations that are interesting to me, but to no-one else.
    you know if you've realised that...well...why dont you stop doing it in conversation......and stop trying to be funny aswell if it doesnt go down well....try another tactic.

    Having just read your geek society thing - thats the reason girls dont like you.
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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    But you must know what other people find interesting or funny?
    I try, but even when I do find things that the other people are interested in, I usually go into too much depth or take something too far.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    I try, but even when I do find things that the other people are interested in, I usually go into too much depth or take something too far.
    One funny comment is usually enough. Stop while you're ahead, don't kill the joke.
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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    Then from experience you should have learned when you're taking things too far, and not to do it next time?
    I really cannot help it, I seem to do it unconciously.
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    (Original post by XTinaA)
    One funny comment is usually enough. Stop while you're ahead, don't kill the joke.
    I don't just kill a joke, I cremate it and scatter it's ashes.
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    Is there a society or group for people with autism? You might meet a girl there who understands and experiences the same things as you, and won't find them weird
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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    Surely all it'll take is a moment's thought before you speak?
    I usually cannot think before I speak, as I usually end planning what I will say and then completely messing it up.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    I don't just kill a joke, I cremate it and scatter it's ashes.
    Well then DON'T!

    Try just thinking to yourself "well I made them laugh, I'm done". Don't just give up before you try, think of the reward that you'd be getting for kicking the habit.
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    (Original post by mobbdeeprob)
    Courting were you Sir Peel?
    why yes good man - i am an enterprising fellow of sorts !
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    Is there a society or group for people with autism? You might meet a girl there who understands and experiences the same things as you, and won't find them weird
    If I met an autistic girl, it is very likely she wouldn't want a relationship, that is the problem, girls who understand me, those with autism, are too withdrawn to ever have any kind of relationship with me.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    I don't just kill a joke, I cremate it and scatter it's ashes.
    lol, my friend was known as 'john the jokekiller' he should of been taken to court for the amount of jokes he murdered! he still done ok with girls. i think if u can get over that shyness then you'll be ok
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    whenever i talk to people i dont know i stutter, mumble and create awkward silences
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    (Original post by XTinaA)
    Well then DON'T!

    Try just thinking to yourself "well I made them laugh, I'm done". Don't just give up before you try, think of the reward that you'd be getting for kicking the habit.
    If I don't at least try to be funny, people will think I am too serious and get put off.
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    (Original post by Sami_ThePeelite)
    whenever i talk to people i dont know i stutter, mumble and create awkward silences
    I do have a very slight stammer, but that's not the real problem, I am extremally well spoken, so it can put girls off me.
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    (Original post by wiwarin_mir)
    If I don't at least try to be funny, people will think I am too serious and get put off.
    YOU don't have to be funny- just smiling and laughing at other people's jokes will make them feel good.
 
 
 
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