Does he like me?

Well if you think he's creeping you out, you wouldn't be "lusting" for him at all

why are people so indirect when it comes to relationships?.. ask him if he likes you LOL, problem solved.

Normally I would. But I don't know him well enough to ask, I feel, and I don't wanna ruin a friendship.

If he's held your hand... Then yes.

He jokes a lot and takes almost nothing seriously (like me).

He coulda been fooling around. Right?

If he's not like that around other people then I'd say that he was trying to impress you with his attitude.

But sure, it's possible that he was fooling around with the whole hand-holding thing.

If you've only known rhe guy a week, I'd say it's better to ask now. If your friendship gets stronger down the line you'll be even less inclined to tell him for fear of ruining a friendship. At least now you can get over him quickly since it's only been a week. Ask him for coffee or something.

I think it's fine. I asked my other friend, and she suggested he could b a horny douche- and although I don't like her generation of males, it has helped me get him outta my head.

I think I'm just being stupid and over thinking.
I'm not ready for any sort of relationship. Maybe when I'm 25-ish I'll b ready. LOL

Yeah that was pretty stupid of her to say tbh, especially if she doesn't know him at all.

If you feel you're not ready for a committed relationship then don't get in one, but I would still say getting your feelings out there and being honest will save alot of energy and potential heartache in the long run. It doesn't need to be a notebook type dramatic confession, just ask the guy out for coffee or something! Guys almost never get asked, so he'll be pleasantly surprised and will almost certainly say yes. Trust me. XD