He has a girlfriend, but gives me attention.

I met this guy, around September and I the first time I ever saw him was when my friend saw a friend of hers and they said hi. He was there that day too, and that day I just realised something weren't going to be the same anymore. He smiled at me, and I smiled back. I thought that would be it and I just found him really attractive.

But then I saw him again, when I was at a event with my friends and he was there too. And I wasn't trying to give him attention because I knew he had a girlfriend at this point, so I was trying to stay away. But he was being so kind and lovely, while I was being quite harsh and rude. I was giving short snappy replies whenever he tried speaking to me. When I was on the phone, he came and said are you alright? Is there a problem? Anytime there is a problem you'll come tell me and many more things. Obviously at this point he was just being nice.

About a week later, we had a event where we were all at a club and he was there too. I didn't know he was going to be there, I was trying to distract myself from him with another guy but it just wasn't working. He kept dancing around me, kept making me laugh he was always there whenever my friends were somewhere else. He was always there. At the end of the night, I was a bit drunk I just waved and said bye. But he held my arm, pulled me hugged me and said look after yourself ok? And I was just gone, my mind was gone.

And now recently we've been speaking on a group chat where he calls me sweetie, babe, and while he was getting for a family event he said 'I need to look good, although I got a girl' he didn't even make an effort to say his girlfriends name? Or anything else. I really don't know what to do. Should I give up on him or not?

I met this guy, around September and I the first time I ever saw him was when my friend saw a friend of hers and they said hi. He was there that day too, and that day I just realised something weren't going to be the same anymore. He smiled at me, and I smiled back. I thought that would be it and I just found him really attractive.

But then I saw him again, when I was at a event with my friends and he was there too. And I wasn't trying to give him attention because I knew he had a girlfriend at this point, so I was trying to stay away. But he was being so kind and lovely, while I was being quite harsh and rude. I was giving short snappy replies whenever he tried speaking to me. When I was on the phone, he came and said are you alright? Is there a problem? Anytime there is a problem you'll come tell me and many more things. Obviously at this point he was just being nice.

About a week later, we had a event where we were all at a club and he was there too. I didn't know he was going to be there, I was trying to distract myself from him with another guy but it just wasn't working. He kept dancing around me, kept making me laugh he was always there whenever my friends were somewhere else. He was always there. At the end of the night, I was a bit drunk I just waved and said bye. But he held my arm, pulled me hugged me and said look after yourself ok? And I was just gone, my mind was gone.

And now recently we've been speaking on a group chat where he calls me sweetie, babe, and while he was getting for a family event he said 'I need to look good, although I got a girl' he didn't even make an effort to say his girlfriends name? Or anything else. I really don't know what to do. Should I give up on him or not?