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    My boyfriend has discussed the fact that I have very small boobs with his best mate, he knows I am really bothered about them especially as I know he is a boob man. Do I have a right to be pissed off about this?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend has discussed the fact that I have very small boobs with his best mate, he knows I am really bothered about them especially as I know he is a boob man. Do I have a right to be pissed off about this?
    tell your friend he has a small penis


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    he cares about your boobs, not you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend has discussed the fact that I have very small boobs with his best mate, he knows I am really bothered about them especially as I know he is a boob man. Do I have a right to be pissed off about this?
    He should love you for who you are and not by your physical appearance. You deserve better than someone who is bothered by you boob size. He should love you despite this and this should not affect the love you have for each other.
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    What do you mean by "discussed'?
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    wtf does this mean
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    dump him
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    i would be pissed if i had a boyfriend and he discussed something like that with his friend. especially if it was an insecurity of mine. i would be so pissed off i would dump him straight away lol
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    Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that by him discussing it automatically means he was being negative aboutit
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    (Original post by RomNoob)
    Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that by him discussing it automatically means he was being negative aboutit
    That's exactly what I wanted to say :rofl:
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    That's exactly what I wanted to say :rofl:
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    You can be pissed off that he talked to a friend about it for sure.

    But some of the comments are laughable. "He should love you for who you are, not your appearance". Are people on the internet just inherent ********ters? Why is it that someone's intelligence, whether someone is kind to pets, whether someone has ambitions or aspirations...are all something you can find attractive but not someone's appearance? Hell, if I posted here that I met a girl over a shared love of a band, people would say it's romantic. If I said I met a girl cause I thought she was cracking looking..."looks don't matter".

    Physical attraction is a huge part of being in a relationship. Some girls aren't attracted to guys with beards, that's fine. It's not shallow. Obviously if the lad's trying to get you to change ****, tell him to fk right off, but he's allowed to think that other girls have something more attractive than you've got. That's normal. He just cannae get caught mouthing about it to his pals haha
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    (Original post by RomNoob)
    White Knights at work

    As he is a "boobs man" its obviously negative
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    (Original post by p29)
    As he is a "boobs man" its obviously negative
    Its not obviously negative, I can be a "boobs man" and prefer smaller boobs
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    (Original post by RomNoob)
    Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that by him discussing it automatically means he was being negative aboutit
    Cos people are posting for rep.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend has discussed the fact that I have very small boobs with his best mate, he knows I am really bothered about them especially as I know he is a boob man. Do I have a right to be pissed off about this?
    The way you write this seems to suggest you was doing it because he is worried about you being bothered by it.

    But actually if you go out with a guy you can more or less depend on him telling all his mates everything about you sexually and physically. Party to brag, or laugh, or want to be better for you, or want to impress their mates, etc. Trust me, most guys are like this, it's just how the world works.
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    (Original post by RomNoob)
    Its not obviously negative, I can be a "boobs man" and prefer smaller boobs
    by "boobs man" she insinuated that he prefers bigger boobs. Therefore it is "obviously negative"
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    (Original post by p29)
    by "boobs man" she insinuated that he prefers bigger boobs. Therefore it is "obviously negative"
    Fair enough. But my first point was that we don't know what OP meant by "discussed", they were very vague and people were jumping to conclusions, anyways I doubt they're still watching the threat no response since posting it
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    (Original post by RomNoob)
    Fair enough. But my first point was that we don't know what OP meant by "discussed", they were very vague and people were jumping to conclusions, anyways I doubt they're still watching the threat no response since posting it
    is the gender-neutral pronoun not excessively cautious here?
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    (Original post by cambio wechsel)
    is the gender-neutral pronoun not excessively cautious here?
    Looking at some of the replies to this thread, not really. I'm not really in the mood to get flamed rn
 
 
 
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