small boobs / childlike build?

sorry if this is TMI!

i was born female but i've got really small boobs. it's literally like i never went through puberty. i've been to doctors etc and have even tried hormone therapy but to no avail.

i wouldn't even mind having small boobs as long as they didn't look so childlike - my nips have not developed at all. it's mainly this part that i hate.

i'm so worried about this being a turnoff for a future boyfriend. it's not just the boobs - my entire body is build like a child's (i'm skinny with no curves but not in a model-like way).

i'd also be quite wary of a guy telling me they like my build, as my body looks like a child's and only someone with weird subconscious pedophilic fetishes / tendencies would genuinely like that

would appreciate ur perspective on this especially from guys 😭 thank u

Reply 1

Mummylucky7

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by Anonymous

sorry if this is TMI!

i was born female but i've got really small boobs. it's literally like i never went through puberty. i've been to doctors etc and have even tried hormone therapy but to no avail.

i wouldn't even mind having small boobs as long as they didn't look so childlike - my nips have not developed at all. it's mainly this part that i hate.

i'm so worried about this being a turnoff for a future boyfriend. it's not just the boobs - my entire body is build like a child's (i'm skinny with no curves but not in a model-like way).

i'd also be quite wary of a guy telling me they like my build, as my body looks like a child's and only someone with weird subconscious pedophilic fetishes / tendencies would genuinely like that

would appreciate ur perspective on this especially from guys 😭 thank u

I have bang same issues I’m now having a Bob job next year

Reply 2

cages cages

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Original post

by Anonymous

sorry if this is TMI!

i was born female but i've got really small boobs. it's literally like i never went through puberty. i've been to doctors etc and have even tried hormone therapy but to no avail.

i wouldn't even mind having small boobs as long as they didn't look so childlike - my nips have not developed at all. it's mainly this part that i hate.

i'm so worried about this being a turnoff for a future boyfriend. it's not just the boobs - my entire body is build like a child's (i'm skinny with no curves but not in a model-like way).

i'd also be quite wary of a guy telling me they like my build, as my body looks like a child's and only someone with weird subconscious pedophilic fetishes / tendencies would genuinely like that

would appreciate ur perspective on this especially from guys 😭 thank u

i think this situation is not uncummon, even if you think you have tried there are various ways you can put on a few pounds.i think this probably isnt a turndown and a relationship is something that, if personality is good will surely happen soon.Although if a guy express he likes you body BECAUSE its childlike specifically and not just because your petite or the body just comes with the girl he like. i would suggest get out of that relationship immediately.

hope this helps

Reply 3

Spacepope87

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You'd be surprised how many thin girls such as yourself have thay issue. It's normally body dismorphia.

Unless if you quite literally look like a 10 year old child. Which I doubt.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

I have small boobs too more like a kid/teenager body shape & I'm a college student. My boyfriend who's also a college student but has an adult body shape & just for context there were other girls that liked him last semester so it's not a random weird guy on campus. You asked for both the girls and guys perspective but I'm not a guy soo...I asked my bf for a guy's pov.
His pov:

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it doesn't matter to a guy that truly would love you what body, boob, etc. size is

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try looking at this in a positive way for instance, you can eliminate which guys only wants you for sex, boob size, just for his entertainment and which guys actually want you for your personality as a person not just your looks

My perspective:

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as an introvert I find this helpful when it comes to being able to not be noticed, especially if you don't want unwanted attention from creepy guys or guys that only want sex, "fun"

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just know that if a guy actually wanted to be with you he won't mind your physical appearance because he's too busy noticing your personality and your internal beauty

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just be yourself and you'll attract the right guy when the time comes

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

I just got to say people like me don't like big busty women don't get me wrong but ass is hot AF but I don't like girls who has huge tits and I like girls with small tits and small ass and theres lots and lots of people who like the same thing I personal would not care as long as people knew you were over age lmao

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