Does he like me??

Ok so...I'm at college and there's this boy in Debating Society with me and we sort of clicked straight off because of similar goals -Law at Uni and political opinions etc.
He looks at me when he's talking to me and pays attention when I talk. He's friendly and sometimes we share jokes but we're not dating, just normal friends I suppose, but I can't tell if it is or could be anything more...I've never had a bf before lol :colondollar:

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So what do you guys think? Am I reading into it too much or what? P.s. I've only known him about a month.
Any advice/ideas would be really useful.
Thanks :smile:

Reply 1

ckfeister

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Original post by Batgirl98

Ok so...I'm at college and there's this boy in Debating Society with me and we sort of clicked straight off because of similar goals -Law at Uni and political opinions etc.
He looks at me when he's talking to me and pays attention when I talk. He's friendly and sometimes we share jokes but we're not dating, just normal friends I suppose, but I can't tell if it is or could be anything more...I've never had a bf before lol :colondollar:

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So what do you guys think? Am I reading into it too much or what? P.s. I've only known him about a month.
Any advice/ideas would be really useful.
Thanks :smile:

First crush, watch it, your mind will think stuff that isn't real.

Reply 2

Court19

Honestly? I'd say no. He's just being friendly

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Reply 3

Rise-up

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I agree with Court here, I think the time you've known each other is just too short and that's he's probably just being friendly. Personally my advice would be take your time, you obviously want your first relationship to be a good one and it's very easy to be swept up in the idea of having someone special to talk too.

Reply 4

username47781

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Original post by Batgirl98

Ok so...I'm at college and there's this boy in Debating Society with me and we sort of clicked straight off because of similar goals -Law at Uni and political opinions etc.
He looks at me when he's talking to me and pays attention when I talk. He's friendly and sometimes we share jokes but we're not dating, just normal friends I suppose, but I can't tell if it is or could be anything more...I've never had a bf before lol :colondollar:

.

So what do you guys think? Am I reading into it too much or what? P.s. I've only known him about a month.
Any advice/ideas would be really useful.
Thanks :smile:

Best bet is don't rush get to know him a bit more first, no harm in going out somewhere in a public place.

Reply 5

John10101

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It depends if your hot. If yes then most likely yes, if average debatable but need more conclusive evidence then he talks to you. If ugly then hes just being friendly.

Reply 6

LisaNikita

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Original post by Batgirl98

Ok so...I'm at college and there's this boy in Debating Society with me and we sort of clicked straight off because of similar goals -Law at Uni and political opinions etc.
He looks at me when he's talking to me and pays attention when I talk. He's friendly and sometimes we share jokes but we're not dating, just normal friends I suppose, but I can't tell if it is or could be anything more...I've never had a bf before lol :colondollar:

.

So what do you guys think? Am I reading into it too much or what? P.s. I've only known him about a month.
Any advice/ideas would be really useful.
Thanks :smile:

He is a decent human being?

Reply 7

username2896864

OP

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Original post by ckfeister

First crush, watch it, your mind will think stuff that isn't real.

Ok I will, thanks :smile:

Reply 8

username2896864

OP

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Thanks guys I really appreciate it :h:

Reply 9

ward47

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Original post by ckfeister

First crush, watch it, your mind will think stuff that isn't real.

"your mind makes it real" - morpheus, the matrix

Reply 10

ward47

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i agree with most of the other posts that you should just take it slow cos afetr only a month its likely to early to really tell.

Reply 11

Nye2001

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If I were you I would perhaps ask to go out somewhere just you and him and go from there because it's difficult to know if you're always together in a group

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