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    I was at the bus stop and saw a girl around my age so I said Hi and said would she like to go out for a coffee sometime. She just looked at me and said no. I bet she thought i was a perv or something

    So again the advice that you guys gave me turned out wrong and im still single!!!
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    You probably should've started up a conversation based around a topic first. To be fair that probably would be bad advice as well . Well done on having the courage to ask her out though!
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    You cannot go to a random girl and ask her if she fancies a coffee, that's the definition of creepy.
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    I'm pretty sure no one suggested saying "hi, do you want to go out for a coffee sometime?" to a random girl at a bus stop.

    The advice was to take up new hobbies and meet people that way.
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    She either didn't find you attractive, already has a boyfriend, or isn't interested in having a possible relationship.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    I'm pretty sure no one suggested saying "hi, do you want to go out for a coffee sometime?" to a random girl at a bus stop.

    The advice was to take up new hobbies and meet people that way.
    Yeah but I DON'T HAVE ANY HOBBIES WHERE I CAN MEET PEOPLE
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    (Original post by King Leonidas)
    You cannot go to a random girl and ask her if she fancies a coffee, that's the definition of creepy.
    So how the hell do you get a girlfriend then!!!!!!!!!!!
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Yeah but I DON'T HAVE ANY HOBBIES WHERE I CAN MEET PEOPLE
    That's why I said, take up NEW ones. :rolleyes:

    Don't get angry again, you know that doesn't usually end well for you.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    That's why I said, take up NEW ones. :rolleyes:

    Don't get angry again, you know that doesn't usually end well for you.
    Like what. What new hobbies. How the hell can i get to a place for a ****ing hobbie
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Like what. What new hobbies. How the hell can i get to a place for a ****ing hobbie
    You could just use a dating app?
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    you could just use a dating app?
    girls don't reply to me on dating apps. Ive tried that before. I have sent thousands of messages to girls the sluts don't reply
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Like what. What new hobbies. How the hell can i get to a place for a ****ing hobbie
    Cooking, sports, books... You name it, there's probably a club for that.
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    Cooking, sports, books... You name it, there's probably a club for that.
    Not that i can get too!!!

    And there are none, i've looked
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    girls don't reply to me on dating apps. Ive tried that before. I have sent thousands of messages to girls the sluts don't reply
    Well, if you call them sluts I can see why they wouldn't reply.
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Like what. What new hobbies. How the hell can i get to a place for a ****ing hobbie
    List of common hobbies people do:
    -book clubs
    -sports clubs. e.g. badminton, football, muay thai, etc.
    -cooking
    -debate and politics.
    -knitting
    -drawing and painting
    -museums and galleries
    -skating
    -dancing
    -animals
    -pottery
    -learning a language
    -music classes

    You can do any of the above.
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    Well, if you call them sluts I can see why they wouldn't reply.
    I don't call them sluts but they don't reply to my messages and i sent loads to people. NONE REPLIED
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    (Original post by constantine2016)
    List of common hobbies people do:
    -book clubs
    -sports clubs. e.g. badminton, football, muay thai, etc.
    -cooking
    -debate and politics.
    -knitting
    -drawing and painting
    -museums and galleries
    -skating
    -dancing
    -animals
    -pottery
    -learning a language
    -music classes

    You can do any of the above.
    Ok mate look up the town Oswestry TELL ME WHAT THE HELL THERE IS TO ****ING DO THERE that i can ****ing get to without driving
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Not that i can get too!!!

    And there are none, i've looked
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    Ok mate look up the town Oswestry TELL ME WHAT THE HELL THERE IS TO ****ING DO THERE that i can ****ing get to without driving

    Then learn to drive.

    You always find an excuse for everything and this is your downfall. Stop finding excuses and work towards getting something. A girl isn't going to arrive wrapped up in a bow and delivered via Amazon. Something blocking your way? Find an alternative.
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    then learn to drive.

    You always find an excuse for everything and this is your downfall. Stop finding excuses and work towards getting something. A girl isn't going to arrive wrapped up in a bow and delivered via amazon. Something blocking your way? Find an alternative.
    i don't have the ****ing money to drive you ****ing idiot

    i don;'t have a ****ing job, no ****ing jobs take me
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    *Insert obligatory joke about the futility of coming to TSR for dating advice because nobody here has friends irl here*
 
 
 
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