A guy told me "You're lucky I like brown girls"

username3489684

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how would you react? I feel quite angry but idk how to react

Reply 1

Trapmoneybenny

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give us context....i cant make sense of this at all

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

As a brown girl I would also feel very pissed off, like when guys have said it to me it's just the ultimate turn off cos it's like ur being fetishized which is never OK

Reply 3

hannah00

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idk what you expect us to infer from that sentence. We are not mind readers

OP

bump

I’d be like “cool, don’t know how that affects me in any way but whatever.”

Reply 6

Notoriety

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It is the classic neg you get off children who use Tinder.

EDIT: Looka that. How did I know this was a Tinder exchange? Papa Notoriety omniscient as per usual.

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we need context

God all of your posts are so obnoxious

Reply 9

username3489684

OP

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Original post by Alexty28

we need context

i matched this italian guy on tinder and I told him I'm indian and he was like "You're lucky I like brown girls" like he was special or something. I thought he might have been trying to say something else and was not acc being racist so I asked him what he meant because he wasnt exactly the only italian guy I matched so its not like i was begging for his atention and he just said "Idc about other guys, we're talking about me now".

i found him to be both ignorant, selfish and racist but im not sure if Ive misinterpreted this.

Reply 10

username3489684

OP

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Original post by LMsav

God all of your posts are so obnoxious

so go

Reply 11

Alexty28

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Original post by justanotherchica

i matched this italian guy on tinder and I told him I'm indian and he was like "You're lucky I like brown girls" like he was special or something. I thought he might have been trying to say something else and was not acc being racist so I asked him what he meant because he wasnt exactly the only italian guy I matched so its not like i was begging for his atention and he just said "Idc about other guys, we're talking about me now".

i found him to be both ignorant, selfish and racist but im not sure if Ive misinterpreted this.

Yeah is sounds like an arrogant ****. Sounds like he was trying to impress you by saying he was into "brown girls" and that you are lucky you matched with him, but the way he said it was like most men don't like "brown girls" and his opinion is a rare one. But yeah he sounds like a cocky ****.

Reply 12

username3489684

OP

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Original post by Alexty28

Yeah is sounds like an arrogant ****. Sounds like he was trying to impress you by saying he was into "brown girls" and that you are lucky you matched with him, but the way he said it was like most men don't like "brown girls" and his opinion is a rare one. But yeah he sounds like a cocky ****.

i thought i was overreacting or misinterpreting what he said, but I get it now so he has been unmatched

Reply 13

UWS

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He likes you because of the colour of your skin, maybe something to ponder over.

Reply 14

username3489684

OP

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Original post by UWS

He likes you because of the colour of your skin, maybe something to ponder over.

why would that make me lucky?
it's one thing to say he likes me skin colour but this is just a weird way to say it right?

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Alexty28

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Original post by justanotherchica

i thought i was overreacting or misinterpreting what he said, but I get it now so he has been unmatched

yh just ignore guys like that, you can always tell what they are like just with what they say online

Reply 16

UWS

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Original post by justanotherchica

why would that make me lucky?
it's one thing to say he likes me skin colour but this is just a weird way to say it right?

Maybe he's obsessing over your skin colour and wants you to feel special? :dontknow:

Reply 17

Alexty28

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Original post by UWS

Maybe he's obsessing over your skin colour and wants you to feel special? :dontknow:

then he shouldn't say it like a ****. He could of put it as "I like brown girls" or something stupid, but he said "you're lucky" like hes Gods gift to her ffs