Closeted Pakistani Lesbian Girl AMA

Have you ever actually been with a girl or been physical with one and do you think they will disown you?

Yes i've been with a girl and 'been physical' with one and no just be really super majorly pissed at me ... like they're gonna think of it with a 'what will others think?' mentality if it wasn't for that mentality a small piece of me thinks they'd be ok with it

okay good for you I hope things work out for you

I think that it's sometimes better for a Pakistani to conform to their culture's views due to the severity in the difference between the two societies.

I think that it's sometimes better for a Pakistani to conform to their culture's views due to the severity in the difference between the two societies.

yeah it's super difficult and i don't think i could ever 'come out' to them to be truthful ... and i don't remember the name of where we are from back home but we're from a highly respected family i just feel like the complete odd one out it's depressing because it's not something i chose it's who i am... couldn't change it even if i wanted to

Omg I'm the same. I'm 18 I'm a Pakistani I've figured out i'm a lesbian I'm not interested in guys I can't tell my parents and they discuss about my marriage to but I can't tell them and I'm just leaving everything to God. I may just end up marrying whom they want me to get it won't work out and then they won't be able to do anything about it. It depresses me too I really wish muslims could just be allowed to be homosexuals.
I'm glad I can relate to you, I feel like I've found my twin haha
Wish you all the best though may Allah help us make the right decision xx

Omg I'm the same. I'm 18 I'm a Pakistani I've figured out i'm a lesbian I'm not interested in guys I can't tell my parents and they discuss about my marriage to but I can't tell them and I'm just leaving everything to God. I may just end up marrying whom they want me to get it won't work out and then they won't be able to do anything about it. It depresses me too I really wish muslims could just be allowed to be homosexuals.
I'm glad I can relate to you, I feel like I've found my twin haha
Wish you all the best though may Allah help us make the right decision xx

Lol, I have been trying to delay marriage.But now i am 29 n i had no excuses (completing education and getting job )left sadly. I Finally got married this year thinking/hoping i might get over with that..but NO I have zero attraction and not at all interested in him.
Its a disaster I am telling you.
Ps: now you found your triplet hahaha

unfortunately the lack of attraction isnt just a lesbian/gay problem. I'm a heterosexual male and on the verge of getting engaged to a girl who my family love but I have zero physical attraction towards. supposedly it's the way she'll look after me that will make me fall in love at some point and take things t the next level.

Just thought I'd put that out there so you realise it isn't just you girls having these issues

Same!
I need to obey my family because I feel guilty.
I think I am because I have no interest in men. But family want me to get married. But if I get married to a guy I know it won't work out will it? The guy will want to do things that I won't be able to.... so I'm 9/10 sure after 1 month,3 months, 1 year the marriage will be broken.
So then I'll just remain single then. But atleast I'll make my family hapoy by marrying but then it won't be my fault if it don't work out...