He is pushing me to send explicit videos?

Hi guys, I am recently talking to this who i met online and things have been ok but i do feel like this guy is not putting an effort to get to know me better. we only talked about our lives etc the first day we texted like i dont even know how many siblings he has etc .. the tests we send to eachother is stuff like how was ur day, what are u doing etc then most of his texts are of how he wants me to send sexual videos to me when i say sexual i mean like pleasuring myself/ playing with myself..he said to me that the only way to trust someone is if you know they trust you. that means if they send u intimate stuff then that means they trust and vice versa.. at the moment this feels dodgy for me as he mostlly talks about sex. For example, this morning like very early morning he said hes feeling horny and if it is needed he will go to the bathroom to play with himself.. i wanted to find out more so i pretended like i was interested in what he was talking and asked him how often he does that. He replied saying he does that often and basically finish off. This made me sick knowing thats all this guy thinks of.. The main thing is we have agreed to meet this Friday for the first time and im hesitating to go.. he has booked a hotel in another city where we both never been before! we agreed to go Friday evening after work and return the next day Saturday so when i think about he still hasn't planned anything for us to do such as other fun things except for the hotel. Every night he asks me to send him something like a sexual video or audio etc.. what shall i do?

Hi guys, I am recently talking to this who i met online and things have been ok but i do feel like this guy is not putting an effort to get to know me better. we only talked about our lives etc the first day we texted like i dont even know how many siblings he has etc .. the tests we send to eachother is stuff like how was ur day, what are u doing etc then most of his texts are of how he wants me to send sexual videos to me when i say sexual i mean like pleasuring myself/ playing with myself..he said to me that the only way to trust someone is if you know they trust you. that means if they send u intimate stuff then that means they trust and vice versa.. at the moment this feels dodgy for me as he mostlly talks about sex. For example, this morning like very early morning he said hes feeling horny and if it is needed he will go to the bathroom to play with himself.. i wanted to find out more so i pretended like i was interested in what he was talking and asked him how often he does that. He replied saying he does that often and basically finish off. This made me sick knowing thats all this guy thinks of.. The main thing is we have agreed to meet this Friday for the first time and im hesitating to go.. he has booked a hotel in another city where we both never been before! we agreed to go Friday evening after work and return the next day Saturday so when i think about he still hasn't planned anything for us to do such as other fun things except for the hotel. Every night he asks me to send him something like a sexual video or audio etc.. what shall i do?

what shall i do?

Direct him to pornhub and find someone better.

Hi guys, I am recently talking to this who i met online and things have been ok but i do feel like this guy is not putting an effort to get to know me better. we only talked about our lives etc the first day we texted like i dont even know how many siblings he has etc .. the tests we send to eachother is stuff like how was ur day, what are u doing etc then most of his texts are of how he wants me to send sexual videos to me when i say sexual i mean like pleasuring myself/ playing with myself..he said to me that the only way to trust someone is if you know they trust you. that means if they send u intimate stuff then that means they trust and vice versa.. at the moment this feels dodgy for me as he mostlly talks about sex. For example, this morning like very early morning he said hes feeling horny and if it is needed he will go to the bathroom to play with himself.. i wanted to find out more so i pretended like i was interested in what he was talking and asked him how often he does that. He replied saying he does that often and basically finish off. This made me sick knowing thats all this guy thinks of.. The main thing is we have agreed to meet this Friday for the first time and im hesitating to go.. he has booked a hotel in another city where we both never been before! we agreed to go Friday evening after work and return the next day Saturday so when i think about he still hasn't planned anything for us to do such as other fun things except for the hotel. Every night he asks me to send him something like a sexual video or audio etc.. what shall i do?

Never a good idea to send nudes/sex videos to strangers. Your videos will usually end up in all sorts of places.
You do realise that him booking a hotel means = he's planning to **** you there? If that's not what you want, don't even attempt to meet him.

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