The gym..
My boyfriends recently started the gym again, and it makes me feel uncomfortable as I don’t want him looking at other girls or seeing them work out. He said he doesn’t watch them, just glances around the room etc.
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
You are being controlling.
Both men and women go to the gym to work out; not to ogle members of the opposite sex. When people workout they are focused on themselves so they don't fall flat on their face. If they wanted to go and stare at people they could do that in a pub without paying monthly membership fees.
In modern times your boyfriend would sooner get yelled at for staring at girls in a gym than get their phone number.
Both men and women go to the gym to work out; not to ogle members of the opposite sex. When people workout they are focused on themselves so they don't fall flat on their face. If they wanted to go and stare at people they could do that in a pub without paying monthly membership fees.
In modern times your boyfriend would sooner get yelled at for staring at girls in a gym than get their phone number.
If you don't trust him then why are you with him? It's human nature to look at other people. Look but don't touch, that's the rule.
You are clearly far too immature for a relationship and he needs to leave ASAP.
He is going to the gym to be a better person, not to pick up girls. And trust me, girls don't get picked up in the gym.
You have trust issues, sort them before you lose him.
He is going to the gym to be a better person, not to pick up girls. And trust me, girls don't get picked up in the gym.
You have trust issues, sort them before you lose him.
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriends recently started the gym again, and it makes me feel uncomfortable as I don’t want him looking at other girls or seeing them work out. He said he doesn’t watch them, just glances around the room etc.
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
Okay, I’ve lost him a few times due to me being ‘crazy’ etc lol
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriends recently started the gym again, and it makes me feel uncomfortable as I don’t want him looking at other girls or seeing them work out. He said he doesn’t watch them, just glances around the room etc.
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
It so happens that around 50% of people in the world are female. You can't stop your boyfriend from looking at other women, and you certainly have no right to tell him what he should be doing with his time. The problem is not him, it's with you - you need to work on your insecurities.
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriends recently started the gym again, and it makes me feel uncomfortable as I don’t want him looking at other girls or seeing them work out. He said he doesn’t watch them, just glances around the room etc.
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
It’s just making me so upset knowing he is going, I bring it up. Which I have done a lot. And he gets annoyed cause he thinks I’m being controlling and he said many times that he doesn’t watch girls, only glances by accident. HELP
You sound overbearing and insecure
She's busy comfort eating and crying over her pizza! Let the girl eat..and cry...and not go to the gym ffs!
Original post by KATE XIA
why you don't go to gym? or dance?
Original post by Spanx
She's busy comfort eating and crying over her pizza! Let the girl eat..and cry...and not go to the gym ffs!
I shouldn't have laughed at this, but I did...
I suspect this relationship is doomed to end not because he is going to the gym, but because you are the controlling and jealous type. It will poison your relationship and subsequent relationships if you don’t get out of this mindset.
Just don't let anyone poison her pizza, or her curry, or her chinese...let her have some comfort in this cruel world!
Original post by Trotsky's Iceaxe
I suspect this relationship is doomed to end not because he is going to the gym, but because you are the controlling and jealous type. It will poison your relationship and subsequent relationships if you don’t get out of this mindset.
Quick Reply
Related discussions
- Pure Gym or The Gym Group
- Anxiety and gym
- Best gyms in the area.
- Exeter University Gym
- Am I in the wrong? Gym/boyfriend
- Is gym a hobby?
- How far is everyone’s gym? Do you walk?
- Muslim girls gym
- Gym bully is now wanted by police
- ARU Helmore Gym Cambridge - yay or nay
- gym etiquette question
- Gym
- Do I need to be supervised to use a squat rack?
- A cute girl talked to me at the gym yesterday
- Is the Uni of York gym good ?
- Online v F2F
- Sports and Gym Facilities at Kingston
- beginning gym
- Best shoes for the gym?
- What are the least busiest times to go to a university gym.
Latest
Trending
Last reply 5 days ago
My friend might be getting extra time and i hate it.Last reply 5 days ago
Just found out about UCL stat test but can't afford to sit itLast reply 2 weeks ago
Dad keeps criticising my university degree choiceLast reply 3 weeks ago
Is this pathetic or genuinely something to be upset aboutTrending
Last reply 5 days ago
My friend might be getting extra time and i hate it.Last reply 5 days ago
Just found out about UCL stat test but can't afford to sit itLast reply 2 weeks ago
Dad keeps criticising my university degree choiceLast reply 3 weeks ago
Is this pathetic or genuinely something to be upset about
