Hey guys,
So I've been dating this guy for almost 2 and a half years now, and at the beginning I didn't really mind it that much as he always went on about going to the gym all the time and talking about it as if thats the only thing he actually does.
Now that we're a bit older and time has passed, I realised that he's still very much only talks about going to the gym and meeting friends and training at the gym.
Nowadays, going to the gym doesn't really seem like a hobby just because its something thats sort of in our routine such as when I ask my colleagues or just friends in general, they say in the morning before work they go to gym or after work they work out in the gym for a while.
Maybe its because its become so normal that I don't regards it as a hobby but more as something you do to take care of yourself, like going for walk.
I just hope my boyfriend can find something interesting to do and not just fill his time with gym all the time. I don't know what it is but every time he brings it up, I just feel so bored cause its over and over again instead of something new.
Perhaps its from all that social media about gym culture and gym bros or whatever, but its crazy to make it your own identity instead of just something you do to take of yourself.