23 Virgin and Can't get it hard enough to have sex, AM I BROKEN?

see a GP if youre that concerned or pop some viagra lool.

Viagara isn't the cure for it. I feel it is more of a psychological thing

Viagara isn't the cure for it. I feel it is more of a psychological thing

I'd agree. It sounds like performance anxiety, I used to get it when I was first having sex.

Just stop masturbating for a while. If you're a late starter like you say you are, you've likely just got so used to your own touch that nothing else works.

Yes that is what I think too.
What do you think I must to?
I would also like to know when do you put a condom on, when your penis is semi erect or rock hard that you're about to ***? I

I can't make out the difference between the two, basically when i put the condom on, it rolls down completely so is it hard enough to penetrate or not?

hey guys
it would be really really helpful if someone would help me solve this issue as i have been constantly thinking about this all day and all the time and it's making me quite depressed.

So here it goes

i first jerked off for the first time in my life 4 years ago at 19 as i always thought it was a taboo and it took a lot to change that mindset.
I have an uncircumcised penis and the first time i ever did anything with a girl and saw a girl naked was last year with one occasional fling but at that time since she was a virgin we never tried having sex since it was too painful for her but everytime i was with her i would probably get hard and she would give me a hand and i would ***.

Long story short
this year i got a girlfriend and the more i learnt about her i was sort of intimidated .
Firstly she has been with quite a few guys and her last relationship was of 4 years which just ended before she met me.
She is a lot more experienced than i am which makes me feel a little like a noob.

Anyway we started dancing and slowly over started sexting and talking on the phone in a sexual way. Thinking about her while or talking to her would get me really aroused.

We decided to get a place and she wasn't ready for sex as she wanted to wait even though she had one night stands but with me she said she felt something permanent so wanted to take it slow. It was the first time i fingered a girl and went down on her and it was all great and the next morning she wanted to have sex so i got it up and as soon as i kept the rubber on i came. She never went down on me or did much to please me.

Honesly i don't know when to keep the rubber on, when you're too erect and about to *** or what is the right time to put the rubber on?

She is quite selfish in bed and she agrees to it and it's me who does most of the work as i want to please her and i love her.

The next time we booked a room at a hotel for 2 nights. Same thing i would go down on her and finger her for an half and hour or more and this time she went down on me but would only go for 5 mins or so and i wouldn't get it hard and then she would scream and be like lets try later and we should wait and i should give up. I couldn't get it up around her but as soon as i went to the washroom and jerked off i came in 5 mins.

The next day we again tried and same story, i did most of the work and she barely went down. I am sexually attracted to her but i feel a little anxious. I feel sex is a task and responsibility its like giving an exam. And i am 23 and haven't had sex so i just wanted to get rid off the virgin tag.
We tried doing it but again i couldn't get it up, it's always semi erect it has never been flaccid but it's never rock solid hard if you know what i mean. And then again she said we must wait and its okay not a big deal although she said to take a viagara and i don't want to be dependent on that ****.

After this incident i started getting depressed and started questioning myself and told her even what if i can never have sex or satisfy her. I feel i am not a man enough and it makes me feel like ****.
To see if my **** worked, i tried sexting her and we masturbated to each other via video call and all these incidents i would get so ****ing hard and come.
I stopped watching porn and looked at her pictures and started visualizing. I would get hard and *** within 5-7 minutes always!

I don't know if my **** is broken or what the issue is?
I don't know how hard you have to be to put a condom as if i'm too hard it feels like ill *** at that moment.
I really love this girl and don't want to screw up.
She's understanding and says we will figure it out but it makes me feel like i am not a man and she deserves better.

Now whenever i think of planning a night out with her, i am scared what if it doesn't work what if i can't perform and please her what if i'm not good enough like her exes and it drives me nuts and i am anxious!

Is something wrong with my body physically and is my **** broken?

Reading on the internet it came up to ed and all and i am scared what if i have that.
Please please please help me

all help and advice will be really appreciated!