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How to fake it till u make it?

How do u actually do it? I have zero confidence and I want to change this.
depends on the context
I don't think you can fake confidence, you just got to step out your comfort zone and get used to it.
Keep trying
Original post by Naomix628
How do u actually do it? I have zero confidence and I want to change this.


Original post by Gent2324
depends on the context


exactly and baby steps work

group project - dont try to become leader immediately and manage everything, just try to contribute a bit more than you usually do and discuss a bit more, maybe say a few more sentences or arrange 1 meeting together and take charge of just one event

academics - dont aim for 80% in exams, just do 5% better than last time

talking to opposite gender 1 on 1 = dont try to have a full on conversation with them with flirting, cross references and amazing engagement, just try to start one conversation with a mutual topic like upcoming large events or ask for the time/location of a place even if you already know it to practice conversing

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