Little sister whispering on the phone in the bathroom?

you must be naive if you think that 12 year olds don't know what sex is. or what nudes are.

you must be naive if you think that 12 year olds don't know what sex is. or what nudes are.

Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.

She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.

Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.

I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.

i wouldn’t say most are tbh. i cant think of any dumb decisions i made and pretty much everyone else i know turned out fine even without parents intervening. if it’s something to do with drugs then fair enough but talking to a boy? cant be a massive issue. i remember hiding my first boyfriend from my parents too and nothing bad happened. i didn’t even know much about sexual things back then

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just cos you started early doesn't mean everyone did. You want OP to spy on her...would you like to get spied on inside the bathroom.

How do you know she's talking to a boy; if you can't even hear her, how can you hear who's on the phone....?? Don't lead us on putting extra information in to justify your paranoia. First of all big plot twist that she's a lesbian and actually not on the phone with a boy at all..... Instead of being too scared to knock on the door and get her off the phone....just knock on the door and get her off the phone...

if you think it’s acceptable for a child to lock herself in the bathroom on the phone to a boy then something is wrong with you, especially in this generation where nudes are seen as what popular people do and trendy. Why go to the bathroom, lock the door and be whispering when she can jus talk normally in her room without anyone listening or close her bedroom door.

i got my first phone at 9/10 i think, lol. i think that's pretty common nowadays?

9?!
Most adults arent even responsible enough for a phone. Its a major distraction and serves pointless. If a kid really needs to make a phone call they can ask an adult around them..

Agreed, by the time I was 12 I was already trying harder to lose my virginity than trying in school work

I can hear the boys voice, very easy to tell the difference between a boys and girls voice. Yeah I do knock and she says she’s doing nothing and in the toilet even tho I heard her whispering to a boy

daddy hated me so to make up for his lack of love and affection, he would spoil me with gifts 😂

no, i'm being serious. she shouldn't be doing "sexual things" at 12 with god knows who. what if she's being groomed by a pedo? when i was her age, i would spend a lot of my free time online, completely unsupervised. you don't want to know how many pedos i would stumble upon, every day.

There’s no evidence she is being groomed.. except whispering in the bathroom. Also if they were worried about that spying on her is not the way to do it. What would you had done if your parents spied on what you were doing online? Personally if it was me it would have not helped at all, jsut made me not trust them and be less likely to ask for help if I needed it

she wouldn't find out, duh. even if he discovers something concerning, he can just say 'i overheard you saying' blah blah blah.
i don't think you quite understand the issue here, lol. thanks to that 'freedom' i spent most of my teenage years surrounded by adult men🙄

I don’t understand the issue because I don’t think people should spy on their kids with no good reason? Okay lol let’s assume everyones getting groomed and obsess over it just because you did. Idiot

ugh, you're so naive it makes me want to slap you, but you're probably just another 12 year old who doesn't know **** about life.