Should I break up with my bf before going to uni

Basically I am going to uni and my bf isn't we are going to be 3 hours away from each other, also with me being in halls I feel I would be tempted to cheat, is it best to break up before I go off to uni?

Reply 1

m.egansx

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Original post by Anonymous

Basically I am going to uni and my bf isn't we are going to be 3 hours away from each other, also with me being in halls I feel I would be tempted to cheat, is it best to break up before I go off to uni?

if you’re feeling tempted to cheat then that means you don’t see you with your boyfriend long long term. if you aren’t able to trust yourself around other people when your boyfriend isn’t around for a while, it’s better to break up as opposed to cheating. if you only have feelings for your boyfriend and know that other people aren’t an option, the relationship will be safe as long as you both put effort in.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

"tempted to cheat" you should've broken up already.

Reply 3

Eva^

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If you feel you would be tempted to cheat, you should have already broken up with him out of all honesty. If you don’t see him as a long term thing, break it off.

Reply 4

Flower D

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Original post by Anonymous

Basically I am going to uni and my bf isn't we are going to be 3 hours away from each other, also with me being in halls I feel I would be tempted to cheat, is it best to break up before I go off to uni?

No don't do that

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

Yes no point in LDR's they never work out

Reply 6

Surnia

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Original post by Anonymous

Yes no point in LDR's they never work out

Yes, they can, if people are truly committed to their relationship.

(edited 1 year ago)

Reply 7

Muttley79

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Original post by Anonymous

Yes no point in LDR's they never work out

Wrong - they do

Reply 8

Stb1750

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I would recommend that you do break up.

Reply 9

Rakas21

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If you believe you would be disloyal then you don’t really love the guy and your relationship is not sustainable anyway.

So yes, this particular emotional investment should be written off.

Reply 10

Sorcerer's Storm

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Most pre-uni relationships end during uni + you admit you’ve got some hoe energy building up so yes, I’d say break up now.

Reply 11

Anonymous #3

Original post by Muttley79

Wrong - they do

I have never known an LDR work among anyone I know all broke up by the end of freshers week

Reply 12

Muttley79

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Original post by Anonymous

I have never known an LDR work among anyone I know all broke up by the end of freshers week

Well I have ... married with adult children too.

Reply 13

Surnia

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Original post by Anonymous

I have never known an LDR work among anyone I know all broke up by the end of freshers week

Mine works! As have those of family and friends.

Reply 14

Mad Man

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Original post by Muttley79

Wrong - they do

Mutt old boy. Still mathsing around?

Reply 15

Muttley79

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Original post by Mad Man

Mutt old boy. Still mathsing around?

I'm female ...

Mm

Original post by Muttley79

Wrong - they do

Or at least they can……… sometimes.

Reply 18

Euapp

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Original post by Anonymous

Basically I am going to uni and my bf isn't we are going to be 3 hours away from each other, also with me being in halls I feel I would be tempted to cheat, is it best to break up before I go off to uni?

This has nothing to do with going to uni if you feel that you would be tempted to cheat. Your relationship has just run its course, so be honest and tell your bf and let him move on.

Reply 19

Mad Man

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Original post by Muttley79

I'm female ...

Sorry I didn't ñow

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