Okay update.
My mum does night shift live in career for 105 year old for last 9 years for half of the week.
She’s now coming to the end of life.
I’ve been staying at my bf house for last 2 years the weekend she isn’t here as she’s very cultural and wouldn’t want sex before marriage and if she knows I’m staying over she will obviously think that.
I’m 23 and very responsible and mature and she knows this.
Anyways what am I going to do? My bf doesn’t know my mum is abit strict.
I stay every week at his and we just finished decorating his house as he said it’s for me and him to feel comfy in his house.
She doesn’t know I’m in a relationship either she asks me and I say no because I have introduced her to a bf in the past which didn’t last more than a year.
What do I do? I can’t tell her I’m staying at a girl friends house every week on end
I’m thinking of looking for night jobs for her. I mean she does a live in so she has her own room, the job isn’t hard but then it’ll look like I’m tryna kick my mum out
Pls I need real advice.
My bf is 35 so he is mature and obviously expects me to stay over his. He works 9-5 Monday to Friday so he spends his weekend with me. This is the best relationship I’ve had so I don’t want to risk the relationship