Scared of losing virginity

I want to have sex with the guy I'm seeing but I'm a virgin and scared after hearing horror stories of it being painful, please tell me it is not that bad?

Reply 1

Meheraj

Original post by Anonymous

I want to have sex with the guy I'm seeing but I'm a virgin and scared after hearing horror stories of it being painful, please tell me it is not that bad?

It'll surely be painful since you'll experience it for the first time. So, it's better to ask yourself whether you can endure it.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Meheraj

It'll surely be painful since you'll experience it for the first time. So, it's better to ask yourself whether you can endure it.

Well I can't wait forever but I am worried it will hurt

Reply 3

Meheraj

Original post by Anonymous

Well I can't wait forever but I am worried it will hurt

Then, it's up to you. And I didn't say whether you should wait or not. As long as you have the ability to endure pain, you can do it. No one's stopping you.

Reply 4

xox416

It hurts, can't lie to you. But it's no horror story. For some the pain is quick and over with. Women are made amazingly, gods gift to earth and we can tolerate a lot of pain.

My advise would be to do it somewhere you're comfortable at, the setting and everything. And make sure the guy takes his time, it will be more painful otherwise. If he just abruptly does his thing, he's not worth it.