I lost my virginity at 21 & that’s because I felt like I had met the right person & felt comfortable with who I was (body confidence etc). Turns out he wasn’t the right person but it still felt right at the time of intercourse. Basically, there is no “one size fits all” when it comes to having sex for the first time, it’s your body so therefore you have complete autonomy over what happens with it. I have some friends who lost their virginities at 12 & some who are my age (24) who still haven’t lost their virginity & that is okay! Society puts pressure onto some people to have sex early but ultimately it is up to you, whether you wait until you feel very comfortable with someone in a relationship or wait until you get married, you make your own story at the end of the day 🤷🏻*♀️