How can I balance my time with gaming with my friends and talking to my boyfriend when he starts to be stubborn?
I currently have 2 jobs and am quite a big gamer. I enter tournaments and play the game alot with my online friends. I mainly play with my girl-friends but in pubs, tournaments and challs there are sometimes boys there but never anything weird and nothing is hidden from my boyfriend either. I don’t go out alot because I just don’t enjoy anything in my area so I do pretty much have no life but I love having my online girl-friends - were all quite close and have known each other a while.
So my issue is, my boyfriend and I are long distance and met on Fortnite around 5/6 years ago. We have been together for 3 years but in the past year or so my boyfriend grew out of gaming and that’s how we would usually spend our time together - Gaming on video call. Since he’s started to grow out of it and I’ve stayed attached I guesss we’re finding it hard to balance. He goes to sleep pretty early too so I said to him I’ll game with my friends and come off at this time and then we can watch something on call together before bed. I even said id like to be on call whilst we’re doing different things but he doesn’t see the point in that. I had some PC issues yesterday and I’d promised my little sister I’d play a game with her and I also said to my boyfriend I’d come off to watch something around 11. Due to the PC issues I didn’t get off the game till around 11:25 and straight away called my boyfriend. He didn’t answer so I text him and he said he just wanted to chill and will call me later because I didn’t come off when I said I would. just the week before he was upset that I wasn’t splitting my time with him and my friends at all. He felt like he was bottom of the list and my heart did break for him and I tried to improve this. He never called me when he said he would so how am I supposed to balance when he becomes stubborn and doesn’t call just because I was off 25 minutes after I said I’d originally said. I just don’t know how to balance it. I want to grind a game as I’m quite a competitive player. I get bored sitting there doing nothing but also want to spend time with my boyfriend due to the distance