About two years ago I was kind of going out with her but I was also going out with other girls. I was less mature then, and I appreciate I've done wrong then but I'm changed now.
She found out that I wasn't serious and she was very deeply serious back then and we split up for a while.
Recently I started missing her again so I messaged her and apologised and said that was me before and I'm not like that now. And I also said not being with her gave me time to reflect and realise I wanted her instead of the others that I'm talking to. She told me I really hurt her with the things I done, like openly telling my mates I'm messing about with her and that kind of stuff. She told me she cried and really felt hurt and asked me why I hurt her so much and what did she ever do to me for me to do this to her. I accepted I was bad then, but she also understood and commented that I seem different now and she was happy to give it another go.
I told her that I am committed to her and I will or have stopped messaging other girls.
It's been really nice having her back in my life and whilst it's tempting to meet new girls, I happy with her and I don't tell people I'm single now.
We have mostly good days now - I'm happy with her. But every few days she gets really upset randomly and brings up the past thinking that I'm talking to other girls. She'll ask me stuff like 'are you just using me again, please say you're not' and then loads of crying emojis. Every time I'm out, she's worried I'm talking to other girls when I'm not. I appreciate if I am good looking, it's subjective, but I have to be truthful I'm not some sort of 10/10 guy where just when I walk out I get hundreds of girls just queuing up for me. I appreciate I get some attention, but I haven't responded to them since I got back.
I get it she is feeling very insecure now but she accepted me, and accepted, said herself that I've changed. And I know I've changed. She's mentioned stuff like the above many many times in the short time we've been together. I know she's hurt, but I asked her to give me a chance to show how much she means to me. She did, and that's what I'm doing.
How do I get her to stop feeling this and keep bringing the past up? 95% of the time it's perfect, then 5% of the time she gets very upset and brings up the past. I only want her right now, I must have told her a 100 times. She wouldn't have taken me back if she knew I was still the same??