Hey there!
I totally get it, starting university can be tough and making friends isn't always a walk in the park. But don't worry, you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. Many students go through similar experiences, especially in the first year.
It sounds like you've already made an effort to socialize and attend events, which is awesome! But sometimes, it just takes a bit more time to find your tribe. Remember, friendships aren't built overnight, so don't be too hard on yourself.
As for your flat situation, it can be tricky when you don't click with your flatmates. But hey, living with people you don't vibe with doesn't mean your whole university experience is ruined. It's great that you've requested a flat switch, although I understand it may not happen immediately. In the meantime, try to focus on creating a comfortable space for yourself within your flat. Find activities outside your room that bring you joy and allow you to meet new people. There are plenty of societies and clubs where you can connect with others who share your interests.
And hey, remember to take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being. If being around your flatmates becomes too uncomfortable, consider spending more time in common areas when they're not around, like during their clubbing nights. It's all about finding that balance and creating a space that feels good for you.
Lastly, don't hesitate to reach out to university support services. They're there to help you navigate any challenges you may face, including social situations. They can provide advice and guidance tailored to your specific situation.
Hang in there, friend! You've got this. And remember, university is a journey, and you'll discover so much more about yourself along the way. Keep being your fabulous self, and amazing things will come your way.
Cheers,
Ilya