i need a step by step guide on how to socialise and make friends

for when i get back to college
if i have no friends or girlfriend by the time i finish y13 then ill know its completely over for me

Reply 1

Thisismyunitsr

It’s not over for you. I am 26 and I can’t make friends and I haven’t had a girlfriend yet

Reply 2

bbcenjoyer

Original post by Thisismyunitsr

It’s not over for you. I am 26 and I can’t make friends and I haven’t had a girlfriend yet

that is not good bro, i dont want to end up like you

Reply 3

Thisismyunitsr

Original post by bbcenjoyer

that is not good bro, i dont want to end up like you

Nah it’s good af bro. No drama as I’m permanently single with no friends

(edited 3 months ago)

Reply 4

Surnia

Original post by bbcenjoyer

for when i get back to college
if i have no friends or girlfriend by the time i finish y13 then ill know its completely over for me

Stop wasting time posting multiple threads on TSR and do something productive in the real world; volunteer, mentor, do sports, indulge your hobbies and interests. All good ways to meet people and get talking!

Reply 5

Thisismyunitsr

Original post by Surnia

If you're on TSR you basically get no ******* anyway.

Reply 6

bbcenjoyer

Original post by Thisismyunitsr

If you're on TSR you basically get no ******* anyway.

real, people here probably lie about getting sex considering its an online forum

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

You are in year 13 I don't have to worry about that, there will always be social life after college like uni, Apprenticeship, or just your job. I had the same issue before I got to sixth form and I learnt from my mistakes.

First of all, you have to appear approachable, so smiling to people even if you don't know them shows that you are friendly. If you met someone once, remembering their names is a must and that works well for girls, coz imagine someone remembering your name just makes u feel unique ✨.
And just from that you can start a conversation. if I go pass them say "hi how are you?", again to show that u care about them.
This is just for a start. If you really are shy then you need to cross your fingers and hope that the person you are talking to will get the conversation going.
hope this helps.